[BarkChompson]

It's a blessing in disguise when a SIF flakes. Yesterday this one thought she would be good for 9, texts at 530 and says that the foal at the stable was supposed to be born at 6 but they were pushing it for 9, so no go.

As far as flakes go, I know this was perfectly legit, but it was a really good reason to delete a definite SIF #. I wish I could just trust my gut 100% of the time and just not message them at all, but there's something about high angle myspace photos that make even gross women's cleavage just so appealing.

Also she is white and lives in the hood so she's definitely a super feminist on top of all that. Then again I'm fucking a 20 yr old college girl tomorrow that definitely doesn't shave, but she is 20 and fit so whatever.

[Takahashiryu]

Happened to me last week.
A girl I had previously kiss closed kept contact with me, initiated conversations, send text messages, showed interest.
Then she called me to go to a college bar that stands between our colleges (setting up a "date" is a major IOI, I thought).
When I arrived, the place was closed and she called me to go to her college, I met her but she began to act cold, didn't reciprocate kino, didn't even look with interest at me...
I tried to kiss close again (my fault, since I didn't have reciprocation) and go rejected...
Damn strange flakey bitch...

[goodfella]

Last night, I was supposed to have a date with a 29 y/o Asian broad off OKC at 8pm. I re-engaged contact with her after having conflcting schedules a month ago.

Text exchange:

Me: Tonight @ 8, lets meet at XYZ bar on ABC st. - 1:31pm

her: Okay - 2:55pm

Me: cool -3:38pm

Her: Do you live like...right next to this bar or something -3:43pm

her: Hey I can't meet up tonight. Im really sorry. I have to work for someone on call -6:13pm

her: Hello? -7:04pm


I saw this flake coming once she came back with that snark question about living "right next" to this bar. Which is BS because I live 4 blocks away, big difference

[NYJ]

Was supposed to hangout with this 20 year old I met over the weekend. She texts me this morning saying she can no longer go because her mom said she had to see her grandpa in the hospital. That and there wasn't an offer to reschedule. The day before when I set everything up she said "Tuesdays are good". I guess with all the herbs out there these women think we're all stupid.

[Player_1337]

Day of the first date- she sends the following message:

Her: Hey, I have to cancel. I recently have become exclusively involved with someone else. Sorry.

How would you guys have responded/or not responded?

[InternationPlayboy]

(04-09-2013 05:19 PM)NYJ Wrote:  

Was supposed to hangout with this 20 year old I met over the weekend. She texts me this morning saying she can no longer go because her mom said she had to see her grandpa in the hospital. That and there wasn't an offer to reschedule. The day before when I set everything up she said "Tuesdays are good". I guess with all the herbs out there these women think we're all stupid.

I was surprised to hear some of the excuses girls in Colombia would tell one of my roommates. He would get, "My uncle just died." Or, "My best friend just died." Crazy ass shit these Colombian girls would make up.

[NYJ]

(04-09-2013 06:06 PM)InternationPlayboy Wrote:  

(04-09-2013 05:19 PM)NYJ Wrote:  

Was supposed to hangout with this 20 year old I met over the weekend. She texts me this morning saying she can no longer go because her mom said she had to see her grandpa in the hospital. That and there wasn't an offer to reschedule. The day before when I set everything up she said "Tuesdays are good". I guess with all the herbs out there these women think we're all stupid.

I was surprised to hear some of the excuses girls in Colombia would tell one of my roommates. He would get, "My uncle just died." Or, "My best friend just died." Crazy ass shit these Colombian girls would make up.

I've gotten a lot of stupid shit, but never somebody supposedly suddenly dying. This is not the first time I've gotten the (insert relative here) just went to the hospital. Imagine using that excuse for not being able to make a job interview.

[AneroidOcean]

(04-09-2013 05:25 PM)Player_1337 Wrote:  

Day of the first date- she sends the following message:

Her: Hey, I have to cancel. I recently have become exclusively involved with someone else. Sorry.

How would you guys have responded/or not responded?

Either no response, or "good luck."

You're not going to gain anything if it's a false story or the real thing.

[Amigoish]

Daygamed an 8 at the mall, i just wanted to fuck that ass. Went for the opinion opener at a clothing store. She asked 2 personal questions first then I went Galnuc after 10 minutes of interaction. Number closed. 2 days later I went to my guitar lessons which is nearby her place, texted her during lunch, she said i can call her later tonight, I did, no answer. 2 days later I went to the lessons again, this time I texted saying we should hang out in a college bar nearby. No answer. 2 weeks later I tried a restart text "hey are you alive?". Radio-silenced. Pretty done.

[Player_1337]

(04-09-2013 07:12 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  

(04-09-2013 05:25 PM)Player_1337 Wrote:  

Day of the first date- she sends the following message:

Her: Hey, I have to cancel. I recently have become exclusively involved with someone else. Sorry.

How would you guys have responded/or not responded?

Either no response, or "good luck."

You're not going to gain anything if it's a false story or the real thing.

This took place about a month ago. My response: Does he/she treat you well? I wouldn't

[StealthAlpha]

Had a girl tell me she doesn't know why she doesn't want to go out. Please don't stop talking, you're so nice

I haven't texted her in a year now. Stupid bitch.

[DarkTriad]

(08-13-2012 09:43 AM)MrXY Wrote:  

I'm just going to start double booking these bitches.

i figure it will double my chance of getting a bang on a given night.

Plus, if both of them come through I can flake on one of them

I've double booked...and been double flaked.

[DarkTriad]

Not sure if this qualifies as Game or just petty revenge, but her favorite band hit town a few weeks after the flake. I called her and told her I had some free tickets, backstage passes etc.. She invited her friends along (yeah that was going to be a productive date), and then I left the whole crew hanging outside the venue. I wanted to try and walk past them with another date, but I think that would have been asking for trouble.

If you live in major city, you could probably contrive this a lot of major events, even if you didn't know her favorite band.

[A War You Cannot Win]

Had a blonde 8 flake on me last weekend.

Been implementing radio silence since then. Broke the silence a couple of days ago with a random text picture of my cock. Her response texts have been frequent and varied. From an outraged 'why would u do that!?!!?!?1' to 'hey' to 'why wont u call me r u mad'.

I'm just going to let her rot. At this point her limited and brief emotional turmoil gives me more pleasure than banging her out. I think I have problems.

[A War You Cannot Win]

(04-12-2013 10:38 AM)DarkTriad Wrote:  

Not sure if this qualifies as Game or just petty revenge, but her favorite band hit town a few weeks after the flake. I called her and told her I had some free tickets, backstage passes etc.. She invited her friends along (yeah that was going to be a productive date), and then I left the whole crew hanging outside the venue. I wanted to try and walk past them with another date, but I think that would have been asking for trouble.

If you live in major city, you could probably contrive this a lot of major events, even if you didn't know her favorite band.

My hat momentarily goes off to you.

[Ensam]

Got a fake phone number the other day. I thought it was pretty fucking funny. Next time I see the girl I'm going to apologize for never calling her.

[jammer]

(04-12-2013 10:38 AM)DarkTriad Wrote:  

Not sure if this qualifies as Game or just petty revenge, but her favorite band hit town a few weeks after the flake. I called her and told her I had some free tickets, backstage passes etc.. She invited her friends along (yeah that was going to be a productive date), and then I left the whole crew hanging outside the venue. I wanted to try and walk past them with another date, but I think that would have been asking for trouble.

If you live in major city, you could probably contrive this a lot of major events, even if you didn't know her favorite band.

What's the story with this girl? Did you tell her to invite her friends along?

[RCron]

So here's a first for me. I was completely stood up tonight, no flake text or anything. It was a girl I met on OKC. 26yo, thin blonde. Appeared to be around a 7 from her pics. After a little initial text chit chat here's how the exchange went on Weds evening:

Me: Yeah, the Yankees are weak this year (she's an avid baseball fan). I want to meet u for a drink. How's Fri after work look?

Her: I'm meeting friends Friday night at 8ish but there might be a possibility of me canceling on them. (should have known the gig was up here)

Me: Sounds good. We'll have more fun. Besides we need to figure out how the Red Sox will dominate the American League haha.

Her: Haha we don't need to figure it out...we just have to watch the do it!!!

Me: You're right. How about meeting at xxx? 7 Work?

Her: 7 sounds great.

Me: Perfect. Let's meet in the area by xxx and xxx.

Her: Okay! That's sooo close to my work haha

Me: Funny. I promise we won't talk work.

Her: Haha it's okay! I like my job!

Me: Sounds good, looking forward to Friday.

Her: Me too!!

Fast forward to tonight. At about 5 past 7 I send her this text: I'm here sitting next to xxx.

And nothing....I give her about 20 mins and decide to do a sweep of all the bars/restaurants in the area and every one of them were loaded with sausage and not an empty barstool in any of them. Fuck it, walked home and lit up a cigar and poured me a scotch. I've been flaked on plenty in the past but they always had the decency to send a lame excuse text. Oh well, meeting another woman on Monday and working on plans for tomorrow night.

[MrXY]

that bitch deserves a dick pic

[RCron]

(04-13-2013 01:10 AM)MrXY Wrote:  

that bitch deserves a dick pic

Haha she does! I wish Google Voice allowed text attachments. I never give out my iphone number to online lizards. I like being able to block them thru GV if things turn sketchy...

[Porter]

This morning she texts me asking me a question. After I answer we have the following conversation:

Her: Thanks. We still on for tonight?
Me: Yup. See you at 9.

3 hours before we're supposed to meet.

Her: Something happened and I cannot meet you tonight. I am sorry.

Sketchy.

[A War You Cannot Win]

The Patriarchy Strikes Back:

Me: Hey you
Dumb Bitch: Hey, I can't wait to see u!
Me: Yeah about that, i'm in the hospital right now. I have some broken ribs and internal bleeding. A drunk driver t-boned my buddy's car.


I really didn't feel like driving and shelling out the cash to shame fuck some lizard.

[Amigoish]

I've probably just got flaked

Cute Badoo girl, a 7 on my book. Text over the week and then called her yesterday to set up the date on Saturday @7pm (i had suggested Thursday). Today afternoon I called her to confirm and she said she was still at work and suggested a later time, around 8h30pm instead of 7pm... she didn't give a specific time though, red flag.

at 7:45pm i texted

me: "8h30pm at xxx"
she (immediately): hi hottie i am busy here but im gonna call you shortly to confirm it, my angel. kisses, aline

it's 9h51pm now... it's done i guess... gonna call fuck buddy i guess... suggestions?

[Rootless]

My first post is about a flake.... way to start.

So I called a solid 7 few days back to set a date (the third) for Friday (yesterday),
She:"bla bla bla I don't know my work schedule, let me call you back when I know".
No answer till now.

I guess I should forget about her?

[ozzyyooo]

(04-21-2013 12:37 AM)Rootless Wrote:  

My first post is about a flake.... way to start.

So I called a solid 7 few days back to set a date (the third) for Friday (yesterday),
She:"bla bla bla I don't know my work schedule, let me call you back when I know".
No answer till now.

I guess I should forget about her?

Da fuckk?? Stay away dude