[Knowledge Seeker]

I went out on Friday with my friend and a few of his coworkers. One of his coworkers (some average Asian chick) was into me. I was on a long cold streak so after a long night of drinking, I said fuck it and banged the shit out of her in my car.

She left me her phone number before we parted but I never gave her mine. I had no intention of ever calling her back, it was strictly a break the streak fuck. According to my friend, she DID want to be long-term fuck buddies but I don't settle for plain Janes. Not only that, her personality is extremely obnoxious.

Should I call her though and try to leave in good terms just in case something happens? God forbid, but if she got somehow pregnant (yes, I wore a condom but you never know what could happen) and I somehow blew her off for a month straight, she might decide to fuck my life over and keep the kid.

I'd rather just pull the "I'm seeing someone else right now and I don't want to hurt either of you." card and tell her I still want to be friends with her, just nothing sexual.

Thoughts?

[TennisPlayer]

dont call if you want it to be a one night thing

call if you want to see her again

[Knowledge Seeker]

(04-08-2012 08:25 PM)TennisPlayer Wrote:  

dont call if you want it to be a one night thing

call if you want to see her again

I don't want to see her but at the same time, I'm scared that if I got her pregnant (worst case scenario), she'd fuck me over for not ever hitting her up. My friend told me that this chick set expectations, as far as fuck buddies go. I'm not interested in that at all.

[-g-]

Yeah give her your number.. what's the worst that can happen? If she wants your number, she will find a way how to get it if she needs it. She's average but you banged her.. therefore you are willing to do it again. Just send her a text and be like "next time let's do it in.." .. something that leaves the door open for a next time but don't define when next time is. I would ignore her after that until you want to talk to her again.

Edit: Okay so U want nothing to do with her... I would still do this anyways so she won't come back with the prego shit and lie (who knows, I've had this happen). I doubt she will and I think its just you trying to be safe which is reasonable. Relax man.

[Knowledge Seeker]

(04-08-2012 08:30 PM)-g- Wrote:  

Yeah give her your number.. what's the worst that can happen? If she wants your number, she will find a way how to get it if she needs it. She's average but you banged her.. therefore you are willing to do it again. Just send her a text and be like "next time let's do it in.." .. something that leaves the door open for a next time but don't define when next time is. I would ignore her after that until you want to talk to her again.

I only banged her to end my cold streak. The last time I had sex was with my ex-girlfriend, which was a while ago.

Once I fucked this girl, I knew it would be a one-and-done thing. She was an average lay and I'm ready to look for a new girl as my next conquest.

The only reason I'd give her my # was in case something happened, like I said earlier, if she somehow got pregnant and to make sure we ended on
good terms (not her being spiteful for me blowing her off). What scares me is that I saw some brown vaginal discharge/sticky compound on my pants right after I fucked her. I didn't bust that night either (too drunk).

[HiFlo]

YES YES YES call her immediately. This is damage control. If she feels "used" there's no end to the bad gossip she can start about you.

It will be an awkward conversation. Hopefully it happened very recently, u can't wait more than 2 days.

Ask her if she got home OK.

Then just blame it on the alcohol. "Wow I got so drunk, things just sort of happened."

Then take it from there.

I learned this the hard way. I do some delivery driving and had a ONS with a girl I crossed path withs daily. I operated under the assumption that both her and I knew it was a ONS and nothing more. So I didn't followup. She got angry started bad-mouthing me to all her coworkers and word even got to my boss. ouch.

Remember, it's just good people skills in general to leave 'em better than you found 'em (or at least make 'em believe that).

[Knowledge Seeker]

Just got off the phone with her. Told her I was drunk as shit on Friday and that I was seeing someone right now (complete lie) and that everything happened in the spur of the moment. Also said that I hope she understood the situation and I wanted to remain friends with her. She seemed to take it pretty well, although I could sense some disappointment in her voice.

Heh, at least it went out on good terms.

[HiFlo]

Yeah, that's how u do it brah.

[scribblec]

wait u didnt even bust a nut and your worried u got her pregnant through a condom EVEN THOUGH you didnt cum???

sounds to me you just wanted to talk to her again even though your telling yourself she was average blah blah blah