Damn it guys, maybe it's just me but I seem to always fall for a particular chick even with so many others around. Any of you have the same problem? How can I stop doing this?? I know "be carefree" but at times it's easier said than done
Falling for chicks
I don't know, I'm slowly breaking myself of this habit, but the problem is I don't have a "stable" of girls around, so it gets trickier. Working on that too though. Hopefully with more experiences I'll just "feel" less.
Once you've dated a few, had a few relationships, and seen enough poontang, you will realize that all this fussing over one girl is a waste of time, and in the end all that you get out of it is a pain in the ass.
No matter what you tell yourself, if you get emotionally attached there will be confusion/pain, when you're gaming instinct kicks back in and she gets boring, and you have to get over her. During this time you'll be pretty pathetic at picking up girls. You decide whether its worth it.
In the past, if i 'fell' for a girl (just a euphemism for oneitis, innit?), in retrospect I would say it was out of a) laziness/complacency and b) she was filling some void, need, deficiency in my life. Ironically, she probably didn't know she was doing anything of the kind. (it's really bad when they know this...btw)
Perhaps you can identify something like that going on in your case...I dunno...you have to be honest with yourself.
Perhaps you can identify something like that going on in your case...I dunno...you have to be honest with yourself.
every girl I've dated with the exception of the first one I dated for over a year was either a or b for sure.
Quote: (10-10-2009 01:00 PM)kerouac Wrote:
Once you've dated a few, had a few relationships, and seen enough poontang, you will realize that all this fussing over one girl is a waste of time, and in the end all that you get out of it is a pain in the ass.
I already know its a waste of my damn time. Ive had my fair share of relationships to know that you are completely right, in the end and every interval between that, they are a pain in the ass.
So how can I seriously stop doing this one-its crap?
I'm confused...what's wrong with falling or crushing on a girl?
Quote: (10-11-2009 06:42 PM)PissedOffChicks Wrote:
Quote: (10-11-2009 06:41 PM)CPH Wrote:
Quote: (10-11-2009 06:13 PM)PissedOffChicks Wrote:
I'm confused...what's wrong with falling or crushing on a girl?
your game gets stale
Oh...Well if you want to be with her...why does that matter? If you already have her.
the answer is very simple.
she is gonna kick in your ass million times if she come to know that she is the only one you are attracted to and she is the only one in this whole world for whom he can do anything.
i am sorry,but the facts are facts,girls do not behave rationally into the responce of ''true love'',or 'feelings''.
so dats why every guy on this earth needs to learn the GAME in order to get emotionless.
if that was not the case,then every kind of one-itis in the world was going to turn into ''loveable'' and fantastic relationship.
Quote: (10-10-2009 08:26 AM)Fuzzface Wrote:
Damn it guys, maybe it's just me but I seem to always fall for a particular chick even with so many others around. Any of you have the same problem? How can I stop doing this?? I know "be carefree" but at times it's easier said than done
get needy with a girl you like,start calling her often,and confess your feelings towards her,do this once or twice with girls you like...and you will be kicked(often).
dont worry when you are heart broken after dat,because this is your begining of not falling for ANY particular chick in the future.
you need to have some rejections.
I think it's kind of funny, and sad how insecure you all are. A real man wouldn't be afraid to feel.
Not everyone here is afraid of feelings, PissedOffChicks, what most guys here want is to find the right girl to "feel" with. Unfortunately, there aren't too many girls with their shit together, so instead of wanting to "feel" with a girl who isn't the right type of girl, a lot of us would rather hook up with different attractive girls while scoping out her other traits to see if she is the right type of girl to "feel it" with.
Anyway, what's more sad, a couple of girls who hookup with guys who ask them if it's ok to kiss them and then come online to a forum to brag about it, or guys who want to get the most out of their potential?
Anyway, what's more sad, a couple of girls who hookup with guys who ask them if it's ok to kiss them and then come online to a forum to brag about it, or guys who want to get the most out of their potential?
You gotta be careful with the feelings.
It's like carrying a gun.
Pull them out at the wrong time and you could be in some shit.
And hey, can I kiss you?
Aloha!
It's like carrying a gun.
Pull them out at the wrong time and you could be in some shit.
And hey, can I kiss you?
Aloha!
Quote: (10-12-2009 02:37 PM)Kona Wrote:
You gotta be careful with the feelings.
It's like carrying a gun.
Pull them out at the wrong time and you could be in some shit.
And hey, can I kiss you?
Aloha!
Haha, I like this one!
And to continue.. If you pull them out in the right place, you can do some serious damage, right?
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Quote: (10-12-2009 06:21 PM)kerouac Wrote:
In related news:
Wow. Those are some pretty low end golddigger girls.
The free Haunted House hustle.
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It is weird how she is publicly roasting the shit out of this guy. Who asks that though? Will you go out with me? Is this a fifth grader dropping her off?
On this note, I like the gun analogy.
On this note, I like the gun analogy.
Quote: (10-15-2009 01:00 PM)Fuzzface Wrote:
damn, she had to tell the world huh? girls and their big mouths
And so his distrust of women begins... ;P
On another related note, everyone should check out "Modern Family" a new show on ABC I believe. It totally relates to everything people talk about on this site and Roissy's:
http://www.hulu.com/watch/97628/modern-family-pilot
Quote: (10-15-2009 01:00 PM)Fuzzface Wrote:
Quote: (10-12-2009 06:21 PM)kerouac Wrote:
In related news:
damn, she had to tell the world huh? girls and their big mouths
its not about distrusting women,they are programed to be like this...i give full trust to a woman,but i know my boundries...its like a chess game..where you know to put all the trust on your opponent that he/she will play it right..but you cant let them win over you...you play it for winning and fun...you dont play it because you hate or distrust your opponent.
Quote: (10-15-2009 01:08 PM)kerouac Wrote:
Quote: (10-15-2009 01:00 PM)Fuzzface Wrote:
damn, she had to tell the world huh? girls and their big mouths
And so his distrust of women begins... ;P
On another related note, everyone should check out "Modern Family" a new show on ABC I believe. It totally relates to everything people talk about on this site and Roissy's:
http://www.hulu.com/watch/97628/modern-family-pilot
Haha I guess you could put it that way. That show is fucking awesome by the way, thanks man
The whole reason I started the thread was because this girl rejected my makeout effort the second time seeing her. But shes always super touchy the whole time & always said "that was soo much fun! We should do it again, can't believe you have to leave". Yeah seriously WTF?
Quote: (10-15-2009 01:08 PM)kerouac Wrote:
Quote: (10-15-2009 01:00 PM)Fuzzface Wrote:
damn, she had to tell the world huh? girls and their big mouths
And so his distrust of women begins... ;P
On another related note, everyone should check out "Modern Family" a new show on ABC I believe. It totally relates to everything people talk about on this site and Roissy's:
http://www.hulu.com/watch/97628/modern-family-pilot
Al Bundy rules. In this show, I still expect him to tell the story of how he scored four touchdowns in a single game for Polk High. This show is called "Modern Family" for kids and teenagers watching this show, they might take the shit serious and start acting like the dad from the first family complete with effeminate, bordeline-homosexual voice. What a puss. On a related note, Sofia Vergara is quite bangable.
Other than Al Bundy and Sofia Vergara, this show blows. It's like "The Office" except families and not funny.
Quote: (10-17-2009 09:23 AM)Fuzzface Wrote:
Quote: (10-15-2009 01:08 PM)kerouac Wrote:
Quote: (10-15-2009 01:00 PM)Fuzzface Wrote:
damn, she had to tell the world huh? girls and their big mouths
And so his distrust of women begins... ;P
On another related note, everyone should check out "Modern Family" a new show on ABC I believe. It totally relates to everything people talk about on this site and Roissy's:
http://www.hulu.com/watch/97628/modern-family-pilot
Haha I guess you could put it that way. That show is fucking awesome by the way, thanks man
The whole reason I started the thread was because this girl rejected my makeout effort the second time seeing her. But shes always super touchy the whole time & always said "that was soo much fun! We should do it again, can't believe you have to leave". Yeah seriously WTF?
In my opinion, there isn't enough tension. That's a key in any kind of sexual escalation. Make her feel nervous. Or something. Some kind of emotion. Then just slowly escalate and pull back a little. You'll get her wetter. If you keep doing this throughout the night you'll feel the humidity level go up because of the wetness of her pussy. But honestly, if you didn't play it right from the start with proper touching/physicality, don't expect much. It's always easier to start of good than do damage control. She says that kind of shit because she loves the attention, but maybe not necessarily you. But also, maybe she's just not ready. I forget where I heard this, but someone once told me "no just means 'not yet'". Just keep trying. Game other girls. Will help with your game and if she finds out, it will get her more into you.
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