Quote: (02-12-2012 12:14 PM)basilransom Wrote:
I've seen a lot of talk about 'lifestyle game,' but in my own life, it isn't very effective. It's great for making you more interesting, but not actually for getting pussy. I'm sure some guys are going to chime in about how I'm doing it wrong, I don't know what I'm talking about, etc. so I'd like to hear how to do it right. The main flaw with the lifestyle shtick is that if there's no pussy around, everything else is irrelevant. Hell, it basically didn't happen. Eg "if a tree falls, and there's no one there to hear it, it doesn't make a sound." I've tried out different cool hobbies, I've seen the guys doing it, and none are scoring much ass from it, if only because there is no ass there to be had.
What do young cute girls do? They go out to drink, they eat, they travel, some work out, they shop, they hang out with friends. If you can get some sort of position relating to those things, then you'll score. I'd love to have something like this. Any niche or gimmick that has girls coming to you, entering your sphere, for whatever reason, is going to make it much more fun and relaxed to meet girls. Seems like the most common solution is having the right job. If you've got a decent job, what are you going to do in your off-time to get something similar?
Most of the times I've investigated getting into something cool, I've found a bunch of dudes and maybe a couple girls. And you'd be lucky if they were cute and single. It's like when I was in college, I'd check out the student groups to see if there was any interesting clubs that also had pussy potential. Overwhelmingly, the pattern was a bunch of dudes, some girls, and the one cute one already had a boyfriend. The one who was into you was mediocre, and you didn't want to poison the pipeline by banging an ugly girl.
Good feedback man but I respectfully disagree. During my time at college I was running a kayak and windsurfing club. I managed to get quite a few notches by having good game and being in a high value position. Problem is what happens in College doesn’t always reflect real life afterwards. You’re definitely right: It is hard to find the right groups that contain high number amounts of quality pussy and it just as hard to gain access to these groups.
As I have left college I have found it a lot harder to find and join such groups or social circles. As most people on this forum would have the general goals of money, health and game I am trying to see where people have found areas that work synergistically. An example would be instead of going running by yourself (health benefits) you start doing spinning classes ( game potential and health benefits).
Is anyone catching my drift? Instead of looking at investing in Gold or Facebook stocks look at investing in something that also provides other benefits like owning a hair salon (just going off the above posts example which is pretty cool).
It’s just a theory I am trying apply as I start to build my ideal lifestyle. What areas, and how many, can I overlap to provide multiple benefits? I will be starting soon in the Canada Oil Industry (thanks to Scotians posts) which won’t provide much game opportunity. But rest assured once I start using that money to start businesses I will be looking to maximise social leverage and health benefits out of them all.
It is something I have seen a lot while travelling: People with limited resources, but who have used what they have to create an environment with large amounts of ladies coming to them. I knew an English overnight tour boat owner in New Zealand who got a lot of ass because he ran the show and provided all these good emotions for scuba diving, swimming with dolphins etc. He also made a lot of money from these tourists. Plus it’s super healthy swimming around all day and working. It’s a perfect combination of health, wealth and game. I am happy with my level of game but when I am not travelling I want a lifestyle where I don’t have to chase pussy, it’s just shows up. And hopefully also provides me with financial benefits lol. Examples of the top of my head: Tattoo artist, club owner, hairdresser, café owner, yoga instructor, gym instructor, travel guide and so on.
Something that really worked in college was a dinner group where everyone cooked for each other once every two weeks. Basically 10 people take it in turns to cook for each other. Worked perfectly: lots of hot girls to game every night, when it’s your turn you can show off your flat and cooking abilities, cheaper than cooking every night yourself and easy to stay back afterwards plus you’re already at her place. Got some serious talent out of that little scheme haha. Unfortunately things like this are harder to do after College.
Quote: (02-12-2012 12:14 PM)basilransom Wrote:
Most of the times I've investigated getting into something cool, I've found a bunch of dudes and maybe a couple girls. And you'd be lucky if they were cute and single.
You are right. Lots of existing groups have either well protected or very limited resources. What I think is needed is discussion on here as to good ideas or already existing examples of making your own groups or social circles. As you said it’s probably easier to just find the right job but if you have the money or knowhow you can just create that same or a better job tailored to your own goals.
Would like to see what is already working for the members here or any good ideas going around…
