(07-15-2024, 06:21 PM)burnerman3000 Wrote: I am curious on what's everyone views on this topic. I was a lot younger when I first joined this forum in its original form and accordingly, dated much younger girls. Nowadays, many girls in my approximate age range (30-40) are either:
1) Single but crazy: Divorced and/or Rode the cock carousel for long enough and looking for the real men now.
2) Single but with kids: Had kids early and now single
3) Divorced with kids: Got married early, had kids, now single.
4) Date younger girls only
#4 is obviously the best solution but especially in the USA, a lot seem to expect sugerdaddies if they want to date or LTR.
Solutions?
Go abroad?
I never had to stoop to dating women with kids, but it's foreseeable that this could happen for men as they get older and the 10 years or so age gap intersects with this age of women.
Having sex with a single mom is one thing, a relationship is another for a variety of reasons:
1. Estranged dad in the equation
2. Kid always has priority and obviously will resent you
3. on the hook for the kid financially because of purposefully destructive divorce and child support laws
4. Self-respect issues
Saying that, I am coming to the conclusion that marrying (abroad in a country without child support treaties with USA) might be the best solution. In that case, single moms aren't much of an issue. There are quality single moms in Latin America, where single moms are the norm, that could be good women to procreate with. They may manipulate you to come to usa or the laws could be changed allowing them to sue you for support in usa.