Holidays is a "big decision" financially wise.
I had girls pitching a holiday ("Let's go to XYZ"). This is not frame yet, because it's a pitch.
BUT
If you agreed on a holiday and she says Dubai or Portugal, then you are in her frame.
The way you wrote it, it was in a "pitch mode". This is the time to come up with other ideas (like @lonewof1992 said), yet it is acceptable to to let her "make the choice" (like @Anchor Man said).
I had girls pitching a holiday ("Let's go to XYZ"). This is not frame yet, because it's a pitch.
BUT
If you agreed on a holiday and she says Dubai or Portugal, then you are in her frame.
The way you wrote it, it was in a "pitch mode". This is the time to come up with other ideas (like @lonewof1992 said), yet it is acceptable to to let her "make the choice" (like @Anchor Man said).
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