Let me boil it down a bit further
At the risk of repeating myself for the sake of clarity: If youve never had sex with a particular girl you should not make out with her at all until you are going to have sex. You are diminishing your "mystery" by doing so. Unless your goal is to just make out that is
Your chance of success would have been better if you'd gotten her into her apt before you started making out...(see 1 above). Making out should be the mid-point of a continuous process with the bang being the end. Unless you can / want to bang her in the car
Yes
There's no mystery. I've explained exactly why her interest waned. Girls brains, especially younger, are addicted to excitement / intrigue ("tingles") much like a drug addict is addicted to their substance of choice. They exchange their "magical" vagina for those tingles.
If you give too much too early she OD's and then effect wears off (she gets bored). When it comes to you and getting pussy if she gets bored, ie sees you as just another ordinary chode trying to get her goodies without giving her what she wants (excitement / tingles), she may as well have OD'ed for real because you're dead to her and her pussy. Or put another way: Her boredom = no pussy
In summary
Your goal should be to control the flow of "tingles" so that they peak right at the exact moment your logistics do.
Quote: (09-28-2015 04:37 AM)heman29 Wrote:
ok, just to summarize my mistakes:
1 I should have not made out for son long if we're not gonna have sex, and I must be the one to end the kiss/makout. I forgot about this one in this case.
At the risk of repeating myself for the sake of clarity: If youve never had sex with a particular girl you should not make out with her at all until you are going to have sex. You are diminishing your "mystery" by doing so. Unless your goal is to just make out that is
Quote: (09-28-2015 04:37 AM)heman29 Wrote:
2 when we were making out in my car on our second date, after 10-15 mins I should have said something to get in her apartment.
Your chance of success would have been better if you'd gotten her into her apt before you started making out...(see 1 above). Making out should be the mid-point of a continuous process with the bang being the end. Unless you can / want to bang her in the car
Quote: (09-28-2015 04:37 AM)heman29 Wrote:
3 In our last date, I should have kept my frame, and I should not have agreed to meet up with her friends included, and definetely I should have ejected when she said a guy was also coming and her female friends left, so it was just the three of us.
Yes
Quote: (09-28-2015 04:37 AM)heman29 Wrote:
Anything else?
Anyway it went wrong mainly cause, for some reason, her interest in me dropped a lot in a few days God knows why. Had she kept the same interest level, we would have gone to have a drink and to dance as I suggested, and I would have probably gotten her in my bed by the end of the night which was the original plan, like I've done with previous girls...
There's no mystery. I've explained exactly why her interest waned. Girls brains, especially younger, are addicted to excitement / intrigue ("tingles") much like a drug addict is addicted to their substance of choice. They exchange their "magical" vagina for those tingles.
If you give too much too early she OD's and then effect wears off (she gets bored). When it comes to you and getting pussy if she gets bored, ie sees you as just another ordinary chode trying to get her goodies without giving her what she wants (excitement / tingles), she may as well have OD'ed for real because you're dead to her and her pussy. Or put another way: Her boredom = no pussy
In summary
Your goal should be to control the flow of "tingles" so that they peak right at the exact moment your logistics do.
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- Does She Have The "Happy Gene" ?
-Inversion Therapy
-Let's lead by example
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