Quote: (09-16-2018 10:42 PM)Delta Wrote:
Quote: (09-16-2018 10:17 PM)Crash_Bandicoot Wrote:
1) It is INCREDIBLY HARD to focus on personal objectives living here. I am a man of discipline, but even with that, it is difficult. There are a variety of separate projects, such as starting my own location independent business, starting side businesses, losing weight, etc. that are just too difficult to focus on completely. It's because there's so much going on in the city on a daily basis that you feel obligated to check out (especially because I'm paying such high rent) and on the women front, there are so many opportunities to bang women. Last night I promised to work on my business, but ended up getting almost a dozen Bumble notifications from horny women. Ended up going on a date, waking up late this morning and now my day is half over. I have cheated on my diet so many times because of the amount of new things I've wanted to try. Ultimately, it's a matter of discipline.
Still waiting for someone who complains about the lack of girlfriend material in NYC to say where in the U.S. is a better bet.
If guys want girlfriend material, they should be boyfriend material and I know I am going to sound like a feminist here. I mean I don't get the logic of guys wanting to raise their notch count and then complaining about the lack of girlfriend material in an area. You are what you attract, seriously.
I'll throw out an idea myself even though I am against it myself, join a religious organization or volunteer group. Do things that show that you have at least some morals instead of spending nights at the nightclub or doing daygame, then come back and tell everyone how tough it is to get a girlfriend.
I'd personally take the no commitment lifestyle myself any day so maybe that is why I am so heavily biased towards NYC.