I am age 28. I have lived in Los Angeles my entire life. I have taken vacations, but none of this sort – 3 months in eastern Europe – 1 week in each Prague, Vienna, and Romania; 3 weeks in Krakow, Poland; 4 weeks in Budapest, Hungary; 2 weeks in Greek islands. What spurred this trip was the Roosh forums and do not regret it one bit – it kind of changed me. The purpose of the trip was just to be free, experience something new, live while young, travel, meet locals, and simply have a good time. The day of return to Los Angeles, I was disgusted. It was nothing new, but things in Los Angeles we are use to – the norm, but they just stuck out and were more apparent. Now, 2 weeks after return to Los Angeles, I can be clinically diagnosed with Depression.
The first person I see after getting off the 777 plane straight from Istanbul is obese. 3 months in eastern Europe, I saw probably 100 obese people – majority mid-life or elderly. I rarely saw a teenager or somebody in their 20s obese. The young population was tall and thin for the majority. In some parts of Los Angeles, you can see 100 obese people in 5 minutes. Even in Beverly Hills, where people eat better because of excess money, there is so many overweight and obese. It shows how much fast food, frozen food, and processed food people consume here in combination with lack of exercise. That further comes down to bad economy. The more money somebody has, the more likely they are to eat well. They will go to restaurants rather than fast food; they will buy fruits and vegetables instead of frozen pizza. Also, because public transportation systems are fantastic in eastern Europe, people walk more. In Los Angeles, people get in the car from point A to B; thus, less physical activity. What pisses me off the most is that these fast food corporations including McDonalds, Burger King, etc have migrated to eastern Europe. It's fucked up because they have fucked people in America with garbage. In the past 5-10 years, they have expanded to Europe. Eastern Europe is a bunch of tall, thin, and healthy young people; in 10 years they will all be fucked because these American corporations are there now.
We get to the international check in area to provide passports and check luggage, it literally took 1.5 hours from the time we got off the plane till we exited the airport. Los Angeles is so over populated that it's disgusting. Then traveling from Los Angeles Airport to the San Fernando valley (20 miles) took about 1 hour. Driving anywhere takes about 2 to 3 times longer than it should. Rush hour is not 8-10am and 5-7pm anymore; rush hour in Los Angeles is 7am-7pm and it gets worse as years pass.
The next day I go to the car wash. It is at a gas station. I go inside to pay the teller. A girl walks in; she looks Persian and she is driving a $100k SUV. She does not ask the attendant, but demands, “refresh the pump. It does not work. I have a baby in the car.” No please, no thanks, harsh and negative attitude. As she is walking out, in a low voice I say, “fukin persian girls”. 2 African-American guys inside hear me and concur. That would not happen in eastern Europe. People have respect. The way she spoke was like she was above him, better than him. Why? Because she is good looking and rich? Well, she's not rich – the guy she married is. I can go on for hours regarding the negative attitudes of people in Los Angeles; the shady ways; how friends scum each other for money.
Now, getting to the girls.
A few days after returning, I'm kind of dry in the girl dept. My cousin has a girlfriend and we decided to do a double date. I pick them all up and we go to a mutually decided restaurant. We have conversation, getting to know each other. While looking at the menu, I notice that a beer is fucking $9. To myself, I'm just in awe; like “wow”. They buy a beer for $1 at most. Even at a 300 or 400% return, it should be no more than $4. How the fuck are you going to charge $9 for some shit you bought for less than $1? Anyways, I briefly bring up just the fact. “In eastern Europe, beers were about $1.50 and mixed drinks were about $4. It's crazy how it's $9 here.” That's all I said; nothing more, nothing less. Now, I do understand that WE SHOULD NOT TALK ANYTHING ABOUT MONEY ON DATES. Especially, first dates. However, it was my first night out after returning. It was something I noticed. If I was alone with a girl, I wouldn't have said it, but my cousin was there too...so I was kind of telling him about it. After the restaurant, I suggest a bar a few minutes away. My cousin has been dating the girl for a year and the girl I was with, was his girlfriends best friend; so he knew her well. They started having a conversation about somebody I didn't know about. I'm kind of like wtf because I had no way of being a part of the conversation; I didn't know the person or situation being referred to. I said, “since I don't know about the person, can we talk about something else.” They agreed, changed the subject. 5 minutes later, they were speaking about some other friend and situation. I asked, “what is her name?” “what happened”. They answered the name, but basically they were not involving me in the conversation. I tried to be a part so I'm not lame and quiet, but it didn't happen. There was a movie playing, I was watching that while they were talking about some BS drama. The next day, I speak to my cousin. He states, “she didn't like you because she thought you were cheap.” I paid for her dinner even though she put her CC in front of me. I offered her a drink at the bar. She didn't order. I poured her ½ of mine. Just by one statement I made, I am cheap. Please note: she is a 22yo Persian girl. I'd rate her a 7.5. I later spoke to one of my girl friends who knew her. She said, “that's funny that she thinks you're cheap because she is so cheap herself. Her family is suing their relatives over something.” Money, filth, and disgust is all that comes to my mind. I will move on...
I go out the next Saturday night to the Library Bar at the Redbury hotel. A pretty chill place with a good amount of girls on Fri/Sat evenings BTW. I popped 3 Xanax, so I'm chillen. This girl initiates me and seems to have a super cool personality, so I end up spending the night speaking to her. She was probably a 6. She is somewhat attractive, but not a girl I want to spend to much time on. Just to fuck and bounce. She tells me shes Iraqi and starts busting out religion talk. I tell her the truth and say I'm not religious and that I'm agnostic. We talk the next day and she gives me all this BS that she is Jewish blah blah. Our first date goes well. Our 2nd date, she pretty much tells me no sexual stuff below the neck until it's bf/gf status. So pretty much I'm stuck with a 6 who is not even super attractive plus doesn't even want to fuk until I spend probably 1.5 months developing it. WTF????? After contemplating the next day, I realize I'm sick of my guy friends in LA anyways and I'm down to kik it with somebody new a couple days per week, so why not? And eventually I'll fuck her. Only in LA will you meet 5s and 6s who won't even give it up. In eastern Europe, you'll rarely meet a 6 and if you do, you're fucking on the first or second date. So currently, I have this girl that I'm going to hang out with once or twice a week until it happens; a girl in Temecula that I'll go to fuck once every couple weeks; while I find a 8 or 9 who I plan to focus on.
Now the reason guys in Los Angeles are wak as well:
I go to Vegas the next weekend and I fuck Irish/German girl from Temecula. She calls me 2 days later saying shes coming to LA. I say I'm down to hang out thinking I'm just going to fuck. Then, she tells me she is bringing a friend along, so I should bring one of my friends. Here is why I hate my friends in LA. (My next mission is hopefully find some new LA friends on Roosh because I am sick and tired of my LA friends.) I hit up my LA friend; a Persian Jewish guy born and raised in Beverly Hills who probably has $500k in his bank account from his parents wealth. I tell him the situation. First thing, “who are these girls? Are we going to have to take them to dinner because I don't want to pay for them. I need to see a picture of the girl.” I'm like, “dude, these girls are coming to LA, they just want to hang out. It's not a big deal. It's not a double date. We're just going to hang out for a bit. I don't want to ask for a picture cuz we're just going to hang out.” But being the Beverly Hills fuck that he is, everything has to be perfect and his way. So now I'm making myself look bad asking the girl for a picture of her friend. After an hour of convincing this piece of shit guy to hang out....I”M HOOKING UP THE MOTHER FUCKER and HE HAS TO BE CONVINCED. These guys are just too uptight and not chill or go with the flow type of people. We meet up and his girl is a 8. Shes 22yo, 5'8”, thin, with some Ds. I'm like “fuck, I want to be with that girl.” Anyways, we have a good time. The aftermath is even more horrendous. He calls me same night after drop off and says, “don't tell them I'm the guy who asked for her picture. Say it's another guy”. Another call same night, “hey, when are you going to Temecula, to hang out. I want to come. Another call the next day, “hey, whats your girls facebook? I want to find my girls facebook and look at her pictures and friends.” Basically, that's it. I shortened it a bunch. I'm basically at the point that I regret taking this guy with me and hooking him up. He wants to go hook up with the girl, but wants me to drive him there. He wants to find her facebook to look at her friends. WHY MOTHER FUCKER? SHUT THE FUCK UP BITCH!!!! Just plain annoying.
Anyways, after 2 weeks here:
1) I'm sick of the girls. They are not as attractive. The ones who are attractive want guys with super status and wealth. The ones who are okay looking, still put up BS. In eastern Europe, there are straight up more girls than guys (the places I've been). The girls are tall and thin. The girls give hints when interested. The eye fuck eye. When you approach, they talk and recipricate conversation.
2) I need to find some new guy friends. Any guys in LA on Roosh, I beg you, please be friends with me. I'm a chill dude. I just want to hit up bars and hollar and chill. That's all. No BS.
The first person I see after getting off the 777 plane straight from Istanbul is obese. 3 months in eastern Europe, I saw probably 100 obese people – majority mid-life or elderly. I rarely saw a teenager or somebody in their 20s obese. The young population was tall and thin for the majority. In some parts of Los Angeles, you can see 100 obese people in 5 minutes. Even in Beverly Hills, where people eat better because of excess money, there is so many overweight and obese. It shows how much fast food, frozen food, and processed food people consume here in combination with lack of exercise. That further comes down to bad economy. The more money somebody has, the more likely they are to eat well. They will go to restaurants rather than fast food; they will buy fruits and vegetables instead of frozen pizza. Also, because public transportation systems are fantastic in eastern Europe, people walk more. In Los Angeles, people get in the car from point A to B; thus, less physical activity. What pisses me off the most is that these fast food corporations including McDonalds, Burger King, etc have migrated to eastern Europe. It's fucked up because they have fucked people in America with garbage. In the past 5-10 years, they have expanded to Europe. Eastern Europe is a bunch of tall, thin, and healthy young people; in 10 years they will all be fucked because these American corporations are there now.
We get to the international check in area to provide passports and check luggage, it literally took 1.5 hours from the time we got off the plane till we exited the airport. Los Angeles is so over populated that it's disgusting. Then traveling from Los Angeles Airport to the San Fernando valley (20 miles) took about 1 hour. Driving anywhere takes about 2 to 3 times longer than it should. Rush hour is not 8-10am and 5-7pm anymore; rush hour in Los Angeles is 7am-7pm and it gets worse as years pass.
The next day I go to the car wash. It is at a gas station. I go inside to pay the teller. A girl walks in; she looks Persian and she is driving a $100k SUV. She does not ask the attendant, but demands, “refresh the pump. It does not work. I have a baby in the car.” No please, no thanks, harsh and negative attitude. As she is walking out, in a low voice I say, “fukin persian girls”. 2 African-American guys inside hear me and concur. That would not happen in eastern Europe. People have respect. The way she spoke was like she was above him, better than him. Why? Because she is good looking and rich? Well, she's not rich – the guy she married is. I can go on for hours regarding the negative attitudes of people in Los Angeles; the shady ways; how friends scum each other for money.
Now, getting to the girls.
A few days after returning, I'm kind of dry in the girl dept. My cousin has a girlfriend and we decided to do a double date. I pick them all up and we go to a mutually decided restaurant. We have conversation, getting to know each other. While looking at the menu, I notice that a beer is fucking $9. To myself, I'm just in awe; like “wow”. They buy a beer for $1 at most. Even at a 300 or 400% return, it should be no more than $4. How the fuck are you going to charge $9 for some shit you bought for less than $1? Anyways, I briefly bring up just the fact. “In eastern Europe, beers were about $1.50 and mixed drinks were about $4. It's crazy how it's $9 here.” That's all I said; nothing more, nothing less. Now, I do understand that WE SHOULD NOT TALK ANYTHING ABOUT MONEY ON DATES. Especially, first dates. However, it was my first night out after returning. It was something I noticed. If I was alone with a girl, I wouldn't have said it, but my cousin was there too...so I was kind of telling him about it. After the restaurant, I suggest a bar a few minutes away. My cousin has been dating the girl for a year and the girl I was with, was his girlfriends best friend; so he knew her well. They started having a conversation about somebody I didn't know about. I'm kind of like wtf because I had no way of being a part of the conversation; I didn't know the person or situation being referred to. I said, “since I don't know about the person, can we talk about something else.” They agreed, changed the subject. 5 minutes later, they were speaking about some other friend and situation. I asked, “what is her name?” “what happened”. They answered the name, but basically they were not involving me in the conversation. I tried to be a part so I'm not lame and quiet, but it didn't happen. There was a movie playing, I was watching that while they were talking about some BS drama. The next day, I speak to my cousin. He states, “she didn't like you because she thought you were cheap.” I paid for her dinner even though she put her CC in front of me. I offered her a drink at the bar. She didn't order. I poured her ½ of mine. Just by one statement I made, I am cheap. Please note: she is a 22yo Persian girl. I'd rate her a 7.5. I later spoke to one of my girl friends who knew her. She said, “that's funny that she thinks you're cheap because she is so cheap herself. Her family is suing their relatives over something.” Money, filth, and disgust is all that comes to my mind. I will move on...
I go out the next Saturday night to the Library Bar at the Redbury hotel. A pretty chill place with a good amount of girls on Fri/Sat evenings BTW. I popped 3 Xanax, so I'm chillen. This girl initiates me and seems to have a super cool personality, so I end up spending the night speaking to her. She was probably a 6. She is somewhat attractive, but not a girl I want to spend to much time on. Just to fuck and bounce. She tells me shes Iraqi and starts busting out religion talk. I tell her the truth and say I'm not religious and that I'm agnostic. We talk the next day and she gives me all this BS that she is Jewish blah blah. Our first date goes well. Our 2nd date, she pretty much tells me no sexual stuff below the neck until it's bf/gf status. So pretty much I'm stuck with a 6 who is not even super attractive plus doesn't even want to fuk until I spend probably 1.5 months developing it. WTF????? After contemplating the next day, I realize I'm sick of my guy friends in LA anyways and I'm down to kik it with somebody new a couple days per week, so why not? And eventually I'll fuck her. Only in LA will you meet 5s and 6s who won't even give it up. In eastern Europe, you'll rarely meet a 6 and if you do, you're fucking on the first or second date. So currently, I have this girl that I'm going to hang out with once or twice a week until it happens; a girl in Temecula that I'll go to fuck once every couple weeks; while I find a 8 or 9 who I plan to focus on.
Now the reason guys in Los Angeles are wak as well:
I go to Vegas the next weekend and I fuck Irish/German girl from Temecula. She calls me 2 days later saying shes coming to LA. I say I'm down to hang out thinking I'm just going to fuck. Then, she tells me she is bringing a friend along, so I should bring one of my friends. Here is why I hate my friends in LA. (My next mission is hopefully find some new LA friends on Roosh because I am sick and tired of my LA friends.) I hit up my LA friend; a Persian Jewish guy born and raised in Beverly Hills who probably has $500k in his bank account from his parents wealth. I tell him the situation. First thing, “who are these girls? Are we going to have to take them to dinner because I don't want to pay for them. I need to see a picture of the girl.” I'm like, “dude, these girls are coming to LA, they just want to hang out. It's not a big deal. It's not a double date. We're just going to hang out for a bit. I don't want to ask for a picture cuz we're just going to hang out.” But being the Beverly Hills fuck that he is, everything has to be perfect and his way. So now I'm making myself look bad asking the girl for a picture of her friend. After an hour of convincing this piece of shit guy to hang out....I”M HOOKING UP THE MOTHER FUCKER and HE HAS TO BE CONVINCED. These guys are just too uptight and not chill or go with the flow type of people. We meet up and his girl is a 8. Shes 22yo, 5'8”, thin, with some Ds. I'm like “fuck, I want to be with that girl.” Anyways, we have a good time. The aftermath is even more horrendous. He calls me same night after drop off and says, “don't tell them I'm the guy who asked for her picture. Say it's another guy”. Another call same night, “hey, when are you going to Temecula, to hang out. I want to come. Another call the next day, “hey, whats your girls facebook? I want to find my girls facebook and look at her pictures and friends.” Basically, that's it. I shortened it a bunch. I'm basically at the point that I regret taking this guy with me and hooking him up. He wants to go hook up with the girl, but wants me to drive him there. He wants to find her facebook to look at her friends. WHY MOTHER FUCKER? SHUT THE FUCK UP BITCH!!!! Just plain annoying.
Anyways, after 2 weeks here:
1) I'm sick of the girls. They are not as attractive. The ones who are attractive want guys with super status and wealth. The ones who are okay looking, still put up BS. In eastern Europe, there are straight up more girls than guys (the places I've been). The girls are tall and thin. The girls give hints when interested. The eye fuck eye. When you approach, they talk and recipricate conversation.
2) I need to find some new guy friends. Any guys in LA on Roosh, I beg you, please be friends with me. I'm a chill dude. I just want to hit up bars and hollar and chill. That's all. No BS.