When I was 16 I had my first official girlfriend. I was crazy in love with her and I thought the sex was pretty good. After the first time we had sex, I quietly excused myself, and went and jumped up and down in the bathroom in front of the mirror while silently shouting Yes! Then at 18, I had my 2nd girlfriend, and if I thought the sex was good with the first one, this one was even better. She loved having sex outdoors and in public places. Again, I was crazy about her. With the 3rd one to my amazement the sex got even better. While she was the most innocent looking of the three she was also the most passionate. You know what they say about Latin women – it’s true. With all of these women, I found them very attractive, I was in love, and the sex was great! BUT, then I started watching porn and thought to myself that if the sex I had was that great this stuff must be even better! With this thought, I set out to experience all of the different kind of sex there was to be had. The same way Roosh dedicated himself to getting flags I dedicated myself to experiencing different the wide world of sex.
I had just about all the different types of sex the average guy would ever wish for with all of the different types of women he would wish to have it with. I had 3-somes, 4-somes, 5-somes, orgies, sex parties, S&M, strippers, hookers, young, old, all types of hair color, eye color, major races, cultures, and ethnicities: Brasilians, Russians, Thais, etc. I had sex in strip clubs, in department stores, in airplanes, I had sex with girls who were high on coke, pot, etc. I tried all the different positions and holes. There’s even some stuff I am ashamed to admit here. If you have seen it in some porn movie there’s a good chance I have done it. And while I won’t deny that some of it was a great experience and I even went back for seconds and more - there was nothing I really became attached to. Most of it was just a novelty that once done didn’t hold that much interest and many times didn’t even bring that much pleasure. Most of the girls I can’t even remember. After each series I would look back and compare it to what I had experience originally with my first three girlfriends and you know what? Everything always came up short. After spending years and a lot of time and effort to have all this different sex the best sex I ever had was what I had at the very beginning. Just plain old regular sex, no condoms, coming inside the girls pussy (this is important) with a girl I was very attracted to and cared about and she in return. But it took me awhile to figure out why this was.
If you don’t play golf you probably don’t understand why people love it. To enjoy golf you have to love it. There is nothing innately enjoyable about walking around in the sun trying to hit a little ball in a little hole. All of the joy of golf is in our own mind. And it’s the same with sex. The more we are attracted to a girl and the more feelings we have for her the more we will enjoy the sex IF it is acceptable. If she’s really bad then it will eventually have an impact but as long as she’s ok, it will be good. I enjoyed having sex with my girlfriends the most not because the sex was that great but because my feelings for them was! It wasn’t the sex that created the most joy it was my feelings about the girl that did. The sex was just a way of expressing your feelings and THIS is what women are born knowing. It wasn’t about the sex it was about my feelings for the girl. If you don’t like golf I can put you on the best golf course with the best equipment and you still will not enjoy it. How we feel about a person or something determines how much we will enjoy it. That was the first lesson. The second was: I didn’t like a lot of sex that other people seem to like. For example:
I don’t like having sex with strange women. I prefer to have sex with a woman I know and am comfortable with.
I don’t like having group sex. I prefer to have sex with one woman at a time.
I don’t like having to be abusive to women, slapping them etc.
I don’t like having sex with drunk or fucked up women.
But hey, this is just me. You may find you like having these kinds of sex or maybe even S&M sex. I have a good friend that enjoys having sex with lifeless girls. The point is, don’t let someone else definition of what makes them happy be your definition of happiness. Just because someone else enjoys something doesn’t mean you will and there is nothing wrong if you don’t. Don’t feel you have to enjoy someone else definition of what great sex is. I wasted a lot of years chasing someone else definition of what great sex is. For example, I knew from the start I didn’t like sex with multiple women/people yet I kept going, adding even more women and people hoping that would somehow magically make the sex better – it didn’t.
Now when someone tells me oh, they would love to bang three girls at the same time, I just smile inside and don’t say anything. I know it’s a road they will have to walk down for themselves and in doing so they will also hopefully find themselves like I did and come to realize what the best sex is – for them.
I had just about all the different types of sex the average guy would ever wish for with all of the different types of women he would wish to have it with. I had 3-somes, 4-somes, 5-somes, orgies, sex parties, S&M, strippers, hookers, young, old, all types of hair color, eye color, major races, cultures, and ethnicities: Brasilians, Russians, Thais, etc. I had sex in strip clubs, in department stores, in airplanes, I had sex with girls who were high on coke, pot, etc. I tried all the different positions and holes. There’s even some stuff I am ashamed to admit here. If you have seen it in some porn movie there’s a good chance I have done it. And while I won’t deny that some of it was a great experience and I even went back for seconds and more - there was nothing I really became attached to. Most of it was just a novelty that once done didn’t hold that much interest and many times didn’t even bring that much pleasure. Most of the girls I can’t even remember. After each series I would look back and compare it to what I had experience originally with my first three girlfriends and you know what? Everything always came up short. After spending years and a lot of time and effort to have all this different sex the best sex I ever had was what I had at the very beginning. Just plain old regular sex, no condoms, coming inside the girls pussy (this is important) with a girl I was very attracted to and cared about and she in return. But it took me awhile to figure out why this was.
If you don’t play golf you probably don’t understand why people love it. To enjoy golf you have to love it. There is nothing innately enjoyable about walking around in the sun trying to hit a little ball in a little hole. All of the joy of golf is in our own mind. And it’s the same with sex. The more we are attracted to a girl and the more feelings we have for her the more we will enjoy the sex IF it is acceptable. If she’s really bad then it will eventually have an impact but as long as she’s ok, it will be good. I enjoyed having sex with my girlfriends the most not because the sex was that great but because my feelings for them was! It wasn’t the sex that created the most joy it was my feelings about the girl that did. The sex was just a way of expressing your feelings and THIS is what women are born knowing. It wasn’t about the sex it was about my feelings for the girl. If you don’t like golf I can put you on the best golf course with the best equipment and you still will not enjoy it. How we feel about a person or something determines how much we will enjoy it. That was the first lesson. The second was: I didn’t like a lot of sex that other people seem to like. For example:
I don’t like having sex with strange women. I prefer to have sex with a woman I know and am comfortable with.
I don’t like having group sex. I prefer to have sex with one woman at a time.
I don’t like having to be abusive to women, slapping them etc.
I don’t like having sex with drunk or fucked up women.
But hey, this is just me. You may find you like having these kinds of sex or maybe even S&M sex. I have a good friend that enjoys having sex with lifeless girls. The point is, don’t let someone else definition of what makes them happy be your definition of happiness. Just because someone else enjoys something doesn’t mean you will and there is nothing wrong if you don’t. Don’t feel you have to enjoy someone else definition of what great sex is. I wasted a lot of years chasing someone else definition of what great sex is. For example, I knew from the start I didn’t like sex with multiple women/people yet I kept going, adding even more women and people hoping that would somehow magically make the sex better – it didn’t.
Now when someone tells me oh, they would love to bang three girls at the same time, I just smile inside and don’t say anything. I know it’s a road they will have to walk down for themselves and in doing so they will also hopefully find themselves like I did and come to realize what the best sex is – for them.