We all deal with flakes and generally consider it a sign that the girl is slipping away if not outright gone. But I'm curious — what's the consensus on flaking out on a prospect? I certainly wouldn't suggest it as a first-date strategy but if you've been out with a girl a couple times and you're not getting anywhere, setting up a date and then canceling the day-of (with a request to reschedule) might be a good way to show that you're slipping away from her. Also potentially good for inner game, as you demonstrate to yourself that you don't need her. Thoughts?
"If you live among wolves you have to act like a wolf." - Nikita Khrushchev