Quote: (09-30-2011 06:51 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:
I hate to say this again, but I feel like it's good advice. I think all those mystery method routines come off as strange, think about it right after you ask a girl for directions, you ask her for relationship advice, for your friend.... Maybe we live on two different planets, but that shit just seems strange, unnatural, and uncool to me. Sure you deliver it well and it hooks them into conversation, but at this point it's like all pre-programmed shit you're saying. I think you should "be yourself" and just go with the flow, find things to comment on in the situation, drop "bait" to get her interested in you and get her asking questions. It might take a while for you to get good, but I suggest you drop the "training wheels" (mystery method routines), and just go off what you know.
Agree with this man. Go natural.