First, my definition of a slut: a woman who has sex outside of long term exclusive relationships. Anything more lenient doesn't stand up to reason.
It's a good point you raise. Think about it for a moment, and it becomes clear we, players, spend the vast majority of our time and energy on sluts, as defined above. Non-sluts are simply a huge waste of time, given the goals of most people here. And it can start to warp our thinking, because we assume that this portion of women is representative. People in general think too much in terms of absolutes. Maybe every woman will cheat given the right circumstances, and maybe every man as well. But the ease with which they cheat varies dramatically from one person to the next. Saying "all women are sluts" isn't all that helpful.
But ultimately, you are wrong. Most American women today are in fact sluts. More importantly, we still meet plenty of women who aren't DTF immediately. And they aren't shining beacons of femininity. As I just wrote in another thread, I'd be willing to wait for sex, and maybe even try out an exclusive relationship - I just don't meet many women worthy of my respect and devotion.
I recently met a girl. She was very nice and feminine. Text and call her a couple days later, and set a date, which is yet to occur. After I hung up, I got extremely suspicious. "This is too easy, something must be wrong. I'm just going to assume she'll flake." Am I paranoid and insecure?
No, I feel this way because of the countless interactions I've had with women leading up to it. When a woman treats me with basic integrity, responding promptly and courteously, I am shocked. When she tells me she has her entire weekend free and that I'm free to choose a night, when she doesn't boast of her unavailability, I'm bowled over by her modesty and honesty. I wouldn't be if these traits were common.
FWIW, this girl in particular is from a very small city in the Midwest, under 21 without a fake ID, and in an environment with slightly more women than men. I have reason to suspect her parents aren't American either. I believe all these factors have a role in why she seemingly has superior character. Girls without such a background are typically worse. And I still don't know if she'll show yet, not until she appears before me.
It's a good point you raise. Think about it for a moment, and it becomes clear we, players, spend the vast majority of our time and energy on sluts, as defined above. Non-sluts are simply a huge waste of time, given the goals of most people here. And it can start to warp our thinking, because we assume that this portion of women is representative. People in general think too much in terms of absolutes. Maybe every woman will cheat given the right circumstances, and maybe every man as well. But the ease with which they cheat varies dramatically from one person to the next. Saying "all women are sluts" isn't all that helpful.
But ultimately, you are wrong. Most American women today are in fact sluts. More importantly, we still meet plenty of women who aren't DTF immediately. And they aren't shining beacons of femininity. As I just wrote in another thread, I'd be willing to wait for sex, and maybe even try out an exclusive relationship - I just don't meet many women worthy of my respect and devotion.
I recently met a girl. She was very nice and feminine. Text and call her a couple days later, and set a date, which is yet to occur. After I hung up, I got extremely suspicious. "This is too easy, something must be wrong. I'm just going to assume she'll flake." Am I paranoid and insecure?
No, I feel this way because of the countless interactions I've had with women leading up to it. When a woman treats me with basic integrity, responding promptly and courteously, I am shocked. When she tells me she has her entire weekend free and that I'm free to choose a night, when she doesn't boast of her unavailability, I'm bowled over by her modesty and honesty. I wouldn't be if these traits were common.
FWIW, this girl in particular is from a very small city in the Midwest, under 21 without a fake ID, and in an environment with slightly more women than men. I have reason to suspect her parents aren't American either. I believe all these factors have a role in why she seemingly has superior character. Girls without such a background are typically worse. And I still don't know if she'll show yet, not until she appears before me.