Been having a lot of deep thought on my overall goals in life since reading Danger and Play's article on Mindset.
This goes beyond just meeting more girls.
Going back and re-evaluating my 20s, as I am now in my 30s, I have wasted a lot of time on nerdy things. While this has certainly been interesting, there was never any real end goal in all of it. I stumbled across the link to the Wallstreet Playboys blog in the Instagram Ho's forum post, and things started to come together in my mind.
First things first: My mindset needs to change. I let negative thoughts too much free reign in my mind due to past circumstance. The only way I can think of changing this is to come up with mantras, meditate on the positive, and repeat the idea of where I want to go on a daily basis. Nothing else has ever worked for me in the past. Similar things to this got me out of bad thoughts last year. Time to push it.
Second: I've got money in the bank and a solid career. I need to now leverage all of that to head towards my own company and secondary income stream. I know that I'm capable, but I keep doubting myself. I have skills beyond many people around me, and I am a long term, wholistic thinker when most of the people I see in my field are extremely narrow minded. That alone gives me an advantage. I just haven't applied it to my own separate income launch.
Third: Approach more women, men, doesn't matter. My ability to communicate and sell will be paramount. Girls can't be my end goal, and to be honest they just aren't motivating as they used to be. I have laid an average, debtless foundation during my 20s, but I could've done better if I focused and didn't let my oneitis cases distract me. Time to push it and extend. Approach new people just to see what happens, not because I'm looking for a girlfriend, but because I want to get more inside of people's heads.
This goes beyond just meeting more girls.
Going back and re-evaluating my 20s, as I am now in my 30s, I have wasted a lot of time on nerdy things. While this has certainly been interesting, there was never any real end goal in all of it. I stumbled across the link to the Wallstreet Playboys blog in the Instagram Ho's forum post, and things started to come together in my mind.
First things first: My mindset needs to change. I let negative thoughts too much free reign in my mind due to past circumstance. The only way I can think of changing this is to come up with mantras, meditate on the positive, and repeat the idea of where I want to go on a daily basis. Nothing else has ever worked for me in the past. Similar things to this got me out of bad thoughts last year. Time to push it.
Second: I've got money in the bank and a solid career. I need to now leverage all of that to head towards my own company and secondary income stream. I know that I'm capable, but I keep doubting myself. I have skills beyond many people around me, and I am a long term, wholistic thinker when most of the people I see in my field are extremely narrow minded. That alone gives me an advantage. I just haven't applied it to my own separate income launch.
Third: Approach more women, men, doesn't matter. My ability to communicate and sell will be paramount. Girls can't be my end goal, and to be honest they just aren't motivating as they used to be. I have laid an average, debtless foundation during my 20s, but I could've done better if I focused and didn't let my oneitis cases distract me. Time to push it and extend. Approach new people just to see what happens, not because I'm looking for a girlfriend, but because I want to get more inside of people's heads.