Ok so I am 24, I admit I dont have much game but I have some good qualities that I realized these past few years, one im not that bad looking just never had much confidence, I talk well and am funny but again due to low confidence I always questioned myself.
I have gotten past a lot of those self defeating thoughts and see myself in a better light, because of this confidence I have had MUCH better success with wonen and am a lot more comfortable, the guy I was years ago was a joke compared to now.
I used to really be a nice guy with girls and never used to talk to them, let alone make a move, if I did talk to them I never made any kind of advance. Now I am much more touchy feely, a jokester and overall have a fun but aloof attitude.
So whats the problem here? Lets talk about this girl I became friends with (not sure if thats good or bad), she is 21 and we hang around a lot and drink, we touch a lot and we laugh a lot, we do a lot except....that. This is going to sound real embarrassing but she has made various sexual comments around me and I dont even say much back, I either laugh or make some dumb comment only to later think (wtf dude, why did you not say this or that), so what is the problem here? So what are the issues here? To me there are 3 main issues for me here.
1.While my confidence has grown a ton, I dont have a ton of sexual experience and I always feel like I might live up to any expectations in the bed, I know it sounds dumb but yea.
2.As funny and touchy I can be I still have trouble making that sexual advance, I usually think a lot about how to go about it and I end up not going for it, I feel like she is gonna be like "woah hey we are just friends", then again she gets drunk with me, puts her head on me, touches me, so yea why am being such a pussy here? Lol
3.I can be witty at random times and say all the right things but when a girl throws me off with some random sexual comment its like I get stuck and have nothing to say, cant tell you how many times I have walked off beating myself up for not coming up with a slick comment.
Yes I think of this girl a lot and it pisses me off, as if she is the only girl out there or even the hottest, she is neither but she is on my mind, I even have other girls like this but I cant stop thinking about her, damn that hurts even typing that...
So yea I feel embarrassed even typing all this but after reading all this red pill knowledge over this past year I have come a long way in terms of my understanding of men and women and working to improve myself, I still have a ways to go as to where I want to be but that is why I am here, to keep learing and improving.
I would appreciate any advice from you vets, thank you.
I have gotten past a lot of those self defeating thoughts and see myself in a better light, because of this confidence I have had MUCH better success with wonen and am a lot more comfortable, the guy I was years ago was a joke compared to now.
I used to really be a nice guy with girls and never used to talk to them, let alone make a move, if I did talk to them I never made any kind of advance. Now I am much more touchy feely, a jokester and overall have a fun but aloof attitude.
So whats the problem here? Lets talk about this girl I became friends with (not sure if thats good or bad), she is 21 and we hang around a lot and drink, we touch a lot and we laugh a lot, we do a lot except....that. This is going to sound real embarrassing but she has made various sexual comments around me and I dont even say much back, I either laugh or make some dumb comment only to later think (wtf dude, why did you not say this or that), so what is the problem here? So what are the issues here? To me there are 3 main issues for me here.
1.While my confidence has grown a ton, I dont have a ton of sexual experience and I always feel like I might live up to any expectations in the bed, I know it sounds dumb but yea.
2.As funny and touchy I can be I still have trouble making that sexual advance, I usually think a lot about how to go about it and I end up not going for it, I feel like she is gonna be like "woah hey we are just friends", then again she gets drunk with me, puts her head on me, touches me, so yea why am being such a pussy here? Lol
3.I can be witty at random times and say all the right things but when a girl throws me off with some random sexual comment its like I get stuck and have nothing to say, cant tell you how many times I have walked off beating myself up for not coming up with a slick comment.
Yes I think of this girl a lot and it pisses me off, as if she is the only girl out there or even the hottest, she is neither but she is on my mind, I even have other girls like this but I cant stop thinking about her, damn that hurts even typing that...
So yea I feel embarrassed even typing all this but after reading all this red pill knowledge over this past year I have come a long way in terms of my understanding of men and women and working to improve myself, I still have a ways to go as to where I want to be but that is why I am here, to keep learing and improving.
I would appreciate any advice from you vets, thank you.