Quote: (03-21-2015 01:53 PM)Laner Wrote:
Her mother makes sure that she treats me like a king with a hug and kiss at the door and always has food ready when I come home, my bar is re stocked, she takes excellent care of herself. Is she a genius? Hardly. Just very average intelligence but between her motherly grace and my solid handed fathering lineage she is damn exited to be raising my son with me.
That's pretty much what I would be looking for also. I don't want an intellectual partner in a women, I have male friends for that. If she has a level of higher education she'll also have an inflated sense of self worth and 50k worth of debt/dicks under her belt.
Quote: (03-21-2015 04:18 PM)Vaun Wrote:
But as you have these urges, mate selection is of utmost importance. Its really everything. Its a wide subject we dont really cover here, other than brief lists of what red flags are. How to first attract, build love in her, and ultimately maintain that love she has of you, is a topic I would recommend learning for several years before you pick a partner. Its not hard to pick a partner. You can spin several plates and ultimately choose the right one. But the process starts with your knowledge in how to find and maintain a wife.
Read and learn as much as you can about how to find the right women. Wait to marry at least until you have hit your stride in your career, hit age 35-40, probably older, and learn to control yourself, your finances, and ultimately having the balls to walk away from the wrong person. That way, when you do have kids, you set them up for the best success in creating the ideal home.
This is pretty much what lead me into these parts of the web. I'm glad you said 35-40 for getting married providing you have a solid foundation to start from as that's what I've been thinking. And if I was say 35 I'd be looking for a girl under 25 and ignore hate from the "he can't handle a real women" spinsters.
In theory the process of raising a family isn't hard and if done right is usually successful. The people that run into trouble seem to have entered ill prepared, or by accident.