So I moved to Tokyo 20 days ago, staying for 6 month for an Architecture internship ( hopefully will stay here forever) and I'v been practicing my game for 8 month or so. I was in Scotland when I started gaming and I had a rough 2 month or so before I started to see some results. I've been reading Gamblers natural game and recently been introduced to Roosh's style of gaming so I want to share with you guys what I tried and hope that someone would point out how to improve.
I've been doing daytime approaches and been stacking numbers and line contacts, but the flakiness is godly here. I met a girl at a bookstore where I wanted to grab a japanese learning book, and asked her to help me out grab something since it was all in Japanese. She barely understands English and still we stood there for 20 minutes laughing and interacting and after I found what I was looking for, I asked her out for a coffee at a starbucks nearby, she agreed and we stayed there for 2 hours with google translate and had a blast..took her number..I left and to be honest it felt rather tiring to go out again when we can barely communicate.
I keep going on weekends to a really nice bar where foreigners and japanese who can speak some English hangout and I keep doing approaches and I take the girl to a club or so we have a blast, but then it is a number with a flake as usual. I believe my problem is with escalating. Especially because I know the Japanese culture is a little strict and I don't want to cause trouble or anything. I had no problems escalating in Scotland maybe because girls there are straightforward and there would be no shame in that. So if anyone has some tips regarding escalating or picking up Japanese girls in general that would be great. I've read most of the threads on these forums, but I think my problem is more specific.
Also for some reason girls here pick up a nice guy/gentleman kind of vibe and don't get me wrong I don't want to be an asshole but is it possible to be giving out these vibes and still be able to get that girl in the sack? let me know guys what you think
I've been doing daytime approaches and been stacking numbers and line contacts, but the flakiness is godly here. I met a girl at a bookstore where I wanted to grab a japanese learning book, and asked her to help me out grab something since it was all in Japanese. She barely understands English and still we stood there for 20 minutes laughing and interacting and after I found what I was looking for, I asked her out for a coffee at a starbucks nearby, she agreed and we stayed there for 2 hours with google translate and had a blast..took her number..I left and to be honest it felt rather tiring to go out again when we can barely communicate.
I keep going on weekends to a really nice bar where foreigners and japanese who can speak some English hangout and I keep doing approaches and I take the girl to a club or so we have a blast, but then it is a number with a flake as usual. I believe my problem is with escalating. Especially because I know the Japanese culture is a little strict and I don't want to cause trouble or anything. I had no problems escalating in Scotland maybe because girls there are straightforward and there would be no shame in that. So if anyone has some tips regarding escalating or picking up Japanese girls in general that would be great. I've read most of the threads on these forums, but I think my problem is more specific.
Also for some reason girls here pick up a nice guy/gentleman kind of vibe and don't get me wrong I don't want to be an asshole but is it possible to be giving out these vibes and still be able to get that girl in the sack? let me know guys what you think