Reaching out to the community as I'm taking a fresh look at where I'm failing on first dates. Typically meet these girls off Hinge (social circle based tinder), typically go to a local cocktail place near me in Manhattan. Date typically last 2 drinks and are not awkward in any way, typically get a few laughs. Either get a kiss and try to move to my place for wine or we go our separate ways with "this was fun, thanks for the drinks". I'll then follow up in 2 days and get a muted response or frankly no response. Clearly it's me as this has happened with the last 5 girls. Given I'm at these dates, I'm the best at answering where I'm screwing up. I'm leaning towards the fact that I'm just not that interesting to talk to for 2 hours. Don't think it's looks, body language, lifestyle.
Has anyone gone through what I'm seeing right now, if so what was the issue and what would you suggest I reexamine?
Has anyone gone through what I'm seeing right now, if so what was the issue and what would you suggest I reexamine?