Warming up by text is tough. Its so impersonal and unemotional. Its tricky to use humor because jokes and sarcasm get lost in translation. She can't hear your voice or feel your "vibe". Its an attempt to seduce a woman without being able to look into her eyes, read her body langauge, touch her, or even talk to her. I don't like those odds.
"Warming up" a girl is much easier in person. I try to make such an impression on her in the first approach that she anticipates my first call or text. I like to push the limits during that first interaction. How far can I take it? Can I touch her? Can I get her to touch me? Can I get her laughing and smiling? Can I get her to ask me personal questions? Makeout?
If I can do some of these things on the first approach. I know she is "prepped" for my first text/call. I already "sparked the flame". If you don't "spark" any flames in person, it might be tough to do it by text. Better to "spark" in person and use text to "feed the fire".
This is why I try to push buttons on that first approach. If she doesn't like my style and is gonna reject me, she can do that in person. I'm not gonna pretend to be "Mr. Niceguy" just to get her number, only to have her ignore my texts later. I go hard on the approach and try to build as much chemistry and comfort as possible. I want her to remember me and think about me for the next few days, anticipating my text/call.
Also, I think calling shows more balls. I know they probably won't answer but I call anyways. I want to show her that I am not like other guys. I am not afraid to call. I have been working on my method for leaving messages. I try not to be plain and "vanilla". I put music on in the background, call from crowded venues, and lie my ass off. I want to capture her interest and imagination. I want her to think that she never met a guy like me.
Of course, as we all know, texting is just part of the Game nowadays. We all use text to try and get laid. So, its important to work on your text Game. But, if you are trying to build attraction and comfort by text I think its gonna be tough most of the time. Texting is a tool to "fuel fires" not for "sparking fires".
Now I will post some text diolouge for my last 2 bangs...In a seperate post...After I go workout and have lunch..
"Warming up" a girl is much easier in person. I try to make such an impression on her in the first approach that she anticipates my first call or text. I like to push the limits during that first interaction. How far can I take it? Can I touch her? Can I get her to touch me? Can I get her laughing and smiling? Can I get her to ask me personal questions? Makeout?
If I can do some of these things on the first approach. I know she is "prepped" for my first text/call. I already "sparked the flame". If you don't "spark" any flames in person, it might be tough to do it by text. Better to "spark" in person and use text to "feed the fire".
This is why I try to push buttons on that first approach. If she doesn't like my style and is gonna reject me, she can do that in person. I'm not gonna pretend to be "Mr. Niceguy" just to get her number, only to have her ignore my texts later. I go hard on the approach and try to build as much chemistry and comfort as possible. I want her to remember me and think about me for the next few days, anticipating my text/call.
Also, I think calling shows more balls. I know they probably won't answer but I call anyways. I want to show her that I am not like other guys. I am not afraid to call. I have been working on my method for leaving messages. I try not to be plain and "vanilla". I put music on in the background, call from crowded venues, and lie my ass off. I want to capture her interest and imagination. I want her to think that she never met a guy like me.
Of course, as we all know, texting is just part of the Game nowadays. We all use text to try and get laid. So, its important to work on your text Game. But, if you are trying to build attraction and comfort by text I think its gonna be tough most of the time. Texting is a tool to "fuel fires" not for "sparking fires".
Now I will post some text diolouge for my last 2 bangs...In a seperate post...After I go workout and have lunch..