[AneroidOcean]

(02-22-2015 10:42 AM)Suits Wrote:  

Thank you all for your kind support.

I'd like to state three things after reading Suits' very thorough followup:

1. When I stated that I'd already covered these in chat, I was mostly referring to the major reasons to skip pool table/hot tub ideas (unless you're a baller with a ton of space). They were included as an appendix, though, so I probably came across as more harsh than intended. Good job culling this all together Suits and thanks for responding to my criticism well. There's something about running successful events that is immensely satisfying.

2. If your guests are having fun, that's really the most important thing to being a successful host and can help you greatly to get laid. Everything else is just a bonus. I downplayed the need for so many niceties but in the right place and with the right crowd they can definitely play your image up. So calibrate.

As an example, I think beer flight glasses won't have much effect if you plan to have a large more energetic party, but if you're having a smaller relaxed dinner party they can play very well with that setting as they match the vibe more and you have the stage set to showcase your interests/beer selection.

3. Music - Dinner parties and such can get away without music. Music is not absolutely necessary for certain parties and groups, but the right type and volume of music for an event helps people get into and maintain the mood you're looking to set, especially since there are so many options for playing a variety of music cheaply nowadays.