Quote: (02-23-2015 12:11 AM)arcterex Wrote:
I've noticed that the guy usually trails behind his woman when walking together. She has a more confident gait, her back and posture is straight up and masculine in nature. The guy is trailing a step or two behind, chin further down, and more of a slump in his posture. It is depressing how often I see the woman leading and in charge. Could be because we inhabit a world where 20-something, even 30-something women are considered higher status than men in many cases. I bet blue pill men just get outpointed all the time and accomodate themselves to it.
I've also noticed the long-time GF or wife snaps at the guy routinely. I was walking on the sidewalk and heard a man telling his GF a story. She snapped, "Not impressed. I've heard that before". He was just silent and continued trailing behind her. Only with older couples where they're in their 40s or 50s do I see the man taking a leadership role, and even that's some percentage of all couples.
That's an interesting point. I think a lot of guys, deep deep down, are 'red pill'. But they walk into the traditional, subversive relationship way too easily, only to realize after the fact that their picture perfect wedding/wife is not what they thought they were buying. But they resist change because of the kids and social acceptance.
The man can regain his leadership role only after his kids get older and his wife passes 'the wall' and losses her ability to attract mulitple better suitors. This assumes a best case scenario where the wife sticks with the program, and thats pretty rare these days..
I wish I saw this as clearly as I do now when I was 23.