Quote: (02-21-2015 12:58 AM)Sooth Wrote:
One option - Let the girl disqualify him herself.
Say something like "Woow you two look perfect for each other, I should let you two go (to the girl)."
That sounds more like you disqualifying yourself. In my opinion - you were there first, you opened her first. You don't leave. Plus saying something that loaded and sarcastic will ultimately make you look bad.
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Can't remember who I got that one from but it can put an AMOGs tail between his legs if the girl objects hard and then moves closer or puts an arm around you.
If this is a first time meet I don't see the girl doing this. If you're at a house party or something and five minutes into your opening another guy tries to amog you, she is not going to put her arm around you.
I'm curious as to what more seasoned dudes would do in this situation. Personally, I've stayed there and let them talk so as not to show jealousy or that I'm phased at all. If the guy says something funny I may even grin or chuckle. If the girl has any social etiquette or consideration of any kind, she will cut it short with him and go back to talking to you. Not out of attraction (you're still working on that part) but just out of respect. When the girl comes back to talking to me, I continue as if the events that just happened never occurred. I don't reference him or the situation at all and continue on.
The way I handle competition is to act as if there is none. I don't amog dudes, I just play defense. In my mind I'm the clear choice. If she doesn't pick me, it says more about her than anything else.