OP, I don't think this qualifies as hitting the wall. She got a shitty haircut and probably gained a bit of weight but the damage is not irreversible; a few months waiting for her hair to regrow and going to the gym a few times a week would make her an eight (or a seven-and-a-half as a few years have passed).
Oh yes, I'm so privileged you literally can't even.
Interested in joining the FFL? I tried (and failed).
Interested in joining the FFL? I tried (and failed).