Quote: (01-27-2015 02:51 PM)Dantes Wrote:
These stories are important to hear about.
There must have been warning signs prior to the affair. Can you speak more about this and also about your inner game during marriage. It is an important aspect of Game that isn't covered enough.
Is she American?
Best of luck
She's a typical American mutt. My inner game really deteriorated during the marriage. Like the other commenters were saying, maybe it wasn't all that good to begin with, but it got worse anyway. I ceded too much in our relationship and allowed her to run things, for example and only one of many examples - she took control of the interior decor of our house.
Yes there were warning signs, but they were subtle. They were not the classic ones like suddenly dressing up sexy, or always working late. But her attitude towards me would go from hot to cold to hot and back to cold again, increasing more distance between us. There were other little things, too - that don't mean anything in isolation, but when put together in 20/20 hindsight, it all comes together. In truth, the BIGGEST warning sign was my gut instinct. I KNEW something was off. Something wasn't right at all. Something changed.