For outright bangs, 4 out of 10 very selective approaches. This still the first week and a half of semester, so.
However, for the other 6 I opted not to go for the first day hookup, or even the Day 2, so it could be more than 4 out of 10 in the coming days/weeks. I have a semi-LTR (at a different university though in the city, which is the reason I feel comfortable) so that's kept me a little reserved.
So there's the initial exchange. I point out the article of clothing, mention the novel. I either lead to my writing or tell her to "Give me the name of a book you really like." Someone says she's read Gone Girl, or something that I suspect is chick lit. I go with. "That's what I thought, you look like the type who reads 50 Shades of Gray kind of books." She's like "What do you mean!!"
Or if she says something like "Game of Thrones" then I'll still say "Yea that's what I thought" anyways.
Then I use school subjects. Her year and major. "How come we haven't seen each other yet?". Then see if we know anyone in common. What did they do over winterbreak - I spent mine in New York so I've been talking about that, seeing Rockefeller Plaza, Empire State building, show her a picture of me kissing a girl on the Times Square kiss cam.
It also happens to be snowing yesterday/today over here, so once I stopped walking and ended up throwing a small snowball at her face (but at her hood) when she gave a "bad answer" to something.
Today, I was feeling a little harassed (senior project deadline real soon) so I didn't try and bring her to my dorm. 5'6''ish skinny girl, pretty brunette with very lightly curly hair. So I just got her number, email and said "I'll send you the first chapter over email." I explain I don't like sending more material than that. But this leaves her coming over to see the whole thing open.
On Thursday, I talked to a girl leaving the dining hall by myself. This time I actually got her to stop in the common room of my dorm. I got her phone number, and then suddenly said "Hey wait, I can show you the whole thing! You have to see it! Come upstairs with me."
My best week in game so far. Two of the 4 I banged want to hang out and the other two are the type to wait for the guy to lead them, so I do need to figure out what I want to do. And how much energy to invest in the other 6, or even in all 10 of them.
It also helps that I actually do need beta readers for my writing.
However, for the other 6 I opted not to go for the first day hookup, or even the Day 2, so it could be more than 4 out of 10 in the coming days/weeks. I have a semi-LTR (at a different university though in the city, which is the reason I feel comfortable) so that's kept me a little reserved.
So there's the initial exchange. I point out the article of clothing, mention the novel. I either lead to my writing or tell her to "Give me the name of a book you really like." Someone says she's read Gone Girl, or something that I suspect is chick lit. I go with. "That's what I thought, you look like the type who reads 50 Shades of Gray kind of books." She's like "What do you mean!!"
Or if she says something like "Game of Thrones" then I'll still say "Yea that's what I thought" anyways.
Then I use school subjects. Her year and major. "How come we haven't seen each other yet?". Then see if we know anyone in common. What did they do over winterbreak - I spent mine in New York so I've been talking about that, seeing Rockefeller Plaza, Empire State building, show her a picture of me kissing a girl on the Times Square kiss cam.
It also happens to be snowing yesterday/today over here, so once I stopped walking and ended up throwing a small snowball at her face (but at her hood) when she gave a "bad answer" to something.
Today, I was feeling a little harassed (senior project deadline real soon) so I didn't try and bring her to my dorm. 5'6''ish skinny girl, pretty brunette with very lightly curly hair. So I just got her number, email and said "I'll send you the first chapter over email." I explain I don't like sending more material than that. But this leaves her coming over to see the whole thing open.
On Thursday, I talked to a girl leaving the dining hall by myself. This time I actually got her to stop in the common room of my dorm. I got her phone number, and then suddenly said "Hey wait, I can show you the whole thing! You have to see it! Come upstairs with me."
My best week in game so far. Two of the 4 I banged want to hang out and the other two are the type to wait for the guy to lead them, so I do need to figure out what I want to do. And how much energy to invest in the other 6, or even in all 10 of them.
It also helps that I actually do need beta readers for my writing.