Quote: (09-14-2011 01:44 AM)iknowexactly Wrote:
I'm a LTR oriented guy getting ready to move to EE, and I've been thinking about this since looking at EE women, where it's more achievable to actually marry a 8-9.
The question I have is how long will beauty keep you hot for her?
One one hand, I've had girlfriends who were 5-6, and I was uncomfortable always looking around at the 8's or whatever.
ON the other, I had a girl who was an 8.5 and she only wanted it once a week, which was obviously hopeless.
This triggers a reality check alarm as it looks like your expectations are too high. Basically you want to marry a hot 8-9 in her early twenties, who'd be in a hot sex (i.e. more like a city party girl, not some religious conservative girl from a village). At the same time you're in your late fifties, you don't speak the language, and your income would be around $2000/mo which is higher than local standards, but not impressive even for Ukraine unless you want to live in a remote village. And if you go for the cream of the crop, you'll be facing some major competition - there are some really rich people even in EE.
If I described the situation accurately, you may have hard time to find what you're looking for, and it is unlikely you'll actually have a lot to choose from. Cheating may be another concern - most girls in such situation won't consider your relationship long-term (i.e. in 15 years she gonna be 35, which is still young, and you gonna be 70 which is quite old), so they'll tend more to treat you as disposable. So your main concerns here should be how long she would stay with you, and whether she gonna cheat on you.
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I believe OldNemesis argued ( I forget where) that looks would be low on his list for LTR.
Close to the bottom. I don't think I ever fucked a girl more than twice just because of her looks; usually it was just once.