Hi guys, I thought my following issue still fits in this thread since it concerns the same girl and is basically an update of the situation.
I've come across a major problem recently. I got into a relationship with that Korean girl and it was even me who was pushing it forward. I'm fully aware of what I'm doing and that it might not be the right thing, but I'm just doing it. She took the plane and visited me at my place after we got separated due to me returning from studying abroad. I promised her she can trust me and even said that I love her. I like her attention and her not meeting other guys. But a long distance relationship without meeting other girls is ridiculous for me even though she's probably expecting excactly that from me. There is no doubt I will meet and bang other girls if I have the chance. And there is also no doubt that lying on her is the only way to keep the relationship alive. What's wrong with me... Why I even got into this situation?
The question now is whether I'm going on a southeast asia trip for a few weeks (where there will be tons of opportunities) or visiting her in Canada for a few weeks (where I've been been studying abroad) and having a good time with her without seeing other girls.
It seems like my decisions and state of mind are guided by my emotions towards her since we've spent a lot of time together recently. I have to admit that it was a good time though.
I need some sober suggestions.
Thanks!
RedGuard
I've come across a major problem recently. I got into a relationship with that Korean girl and it was even me who was pushing it forward. I'm fully aware of what I'm doing and that it might not be the right thing, but I'm just doing it. She took the plane and visited me at my place after we got separated due to me returning from studying abroad. I promised her she can trust me and even said that I love her. I like her attention and her not meeting other guys. But a long distance relationship without meeting other girls is ridiculous for me even though she's probably expecting excactly that from me. There is no doubt I will meet and bang other girls if I have the chance. And there is also no doubt that lying on her is the only way to keep the relationship alive. What's wrong with me... Why I even got into this situation?
The question now is whether I'm going on a southeast asia trip for a few weeks (where there will be tons of opportunities) or visiting her in Canada for a few weeks (where I've been been studying abroad) and having a good time with her without seeing other girls.
It seems like my decisions and state of mind are guided by my emotions towards her since we've spent a lot of time together recently. I have to admit that it was a good time though.
I need some sober suggestions.
Thanks!
RedGuard