[Dalaran1991]

(01-07-2015 06:20 PM)XXL Wrote:  

You can probe a little bit how she feels about you before taking her number...

- Tell her why you like her and mention when or where you want to see her again and describe that future date/hangout a bit. Watch very closely her reaction to that. If she's evasive, hesitant, closed off, inhibited, very skeptic etc and she tries to hide her unwillingness to meet up with you again yet acts nice to be polite then she's not down.

Or..

- Escalate the vibe. Amp up romantic atmosphere a bit. Flirt more. Use more pauses. Hold deep eye contact. Touch her in appropriate fun creative way. She should feel that sexy tension. Girls who are attracted get a bit self conscious/shy or smirk in a certain way or look at you in a different way. If she doesn't and she just stays super cool and indifferent to your advances then she's not down.

Doing those things shouldn't be a problem as long as you're into the girl in front of you. Treat phone number only as a tool to meet up again so that the act of taking it is not your end goal or some sort of big moment. Try to establish attraction/connection and mutual expectations/agreement to see each other again first.

Wisdom