Ok, so I'm posting this in the Newb thread because I know one should not hesitate to approach regardless of an IOI. It is something I would like to get past.
I can detect classic IOI's from women (eye contact, glances, etc.)
One thing I want to ask though is let's say you're walking down the street.
Women are brilliant at doing the thousand yard stare thing, where an escaped rhino could run past them on the sidewalk and they'd be able to look straight ahead as if they didn't see it.
Some will look away as they pass by you, and others, who seem interested, will flip their hair as they look at you.
The one that I was wondering about is where they are doing the stare into space but simultaneously sort of have their body position open to you (not looking at you but almost have their face angled at you as they pass)?
Or, when they become slightly jittery (eyes darting around) as you walk toward each other. I can't tell if they are are worried I'm going to say something, or hoping I will. I never do these two types of approaches
so far so I don't know...??
Lately, I've mainly been focussing on talking to ones who give IOI's b/c just doing that is producing results for me, and the street is not my favorite environment either, but I wonder if I'm missing obvious opportunities.
And yes, I know there is one way to find out...
I can detect classic IOI's from women (eye contact, glances, etc.)
One thing I want to ask though is let's say you're walking down the street.
Women are brilliant at doing the thousand yard stare thing, where an escaped rhino could run past them on the sidewalk and they'd be able to look straight ahead as if they didn't see it.
Some will look away as they pass by you, and others, who seem interested, will flip their hair as they look at you.
The one that I was wondering about is where they are doing the stare into space but simultaneously sort of have their body position open to you (not looking at you but almost have their face angled at you as they pass)?
Or, when they become slightly jittery (eyes darting around) as you walk toward each other. I can't tell if they are are worried I'm going to say something, or hoping I will. I never do these two types of approaches
so far so I don't know...??
Lately, I've mainly been focussing on talking to ones who give IOI's b/c just doing that is producing results for me, and the street is not my favorite environment either, but I wonder if I'm missing obvious opportunities.
And yes, I know there is one way to find out...