Quote: (12-20-2014 08:11 AM)amity Wrote:
How do you guys deal with this?
It's been happening me a bit lately.
Admittedly, mostly in loud clubs, where bitch shields can be high.
But still it's pretty demoralising when it happens.
Soft rejections I can handle, but damn I got one nasty rejection last night, two girls as good as told me to fuck off.
I gave it right back to them which felt good, but still, nasty bitches drain your mojo.
I plowed on and my buddy and me secured some rural chicks on our way out the club, and that went well, effortless even.
But it wasn't that success that stayed with me, it was the nasty wenches from the club.
Next day I'm putting it behind me, it doesn't feel as bad now.
Still though, how do you ensure that bad attitude chicks like this don't puncture your mood for the evening?
Stop placing to much importance on any one approach. Reframe your attitude and it won't have an effect on the rest of your night.
Also, I don't see the point in approaching mediocre women. In a club, you can get blown out by a 5 just as easily as a 9. Are you a club guy? Maybe you need to rethink what kind of game you are suited for.