Quote: (09-08-2011 03:13 PM)Giovonny Wrote:
Quote: (09-07-2011 01:33 PM)pitt Wrote:
Quote: (09-06-2011 07:48 PM)Giovonny Wrote:
Girls are into more important things like clothes, hair, and makeup.
I don't blame them.
Looks will get a woman further then being in touch with herself.
If girls did self development, they would probably kill themselves.
Giovonny you always come out with great comments and you are in my top 3 on here when comes to reading comments, but that comment wasnt intelligent at all. Clothes, hair and make up are more important than self development? I cant believe what i am reading.
I was half joking. But, also, half serious.
Let me try to explain. If I see a girl, I don't care how "developed" she is. I only care if she is attractive or not.
I don't care if she is "in touch with herself", "self-aware", or trying to work on her intergrity and character. I just want to know if she is sexy and I can vibe with her.
From the players perspective, they are easier to bang if they have low self esteem and self worth.
Don't get me wrong. I am all for women bettering themselves. I just think they should start with their looks. Isn't that all most of us care about? Everyone is judging them by their looks... men, other women, most of society. Wouldn't you agree that being good looking will open more doors and create more opportunity then "working on herself"?
If a woman wants to better herself for her own happiness, then more power to her. But, as far as I'm concerned, I just want her body. Her self-esteem is her business.
I mean, who would you rather spend an evening drinking with?
A "self-help" chick with bad skin and fat belly? Or a shallow, dumb bitch with a tight waistline, a banging body and cute face?
Here is my idea of female self development:
Boob-job
Facials (for clear skin)
Squats and lunges (To build up the butt)
Clean diet (to stay skinny)
Learn to cook
Be more feminine
Girls don't want to face reality, they want to live in a fantasy world. Thats why they wear makeup, high heels, and padded bras. To avoid reality.
Well actually i wouldnt like all women to be into self development, just like not every guy is not into self development. However my point is that i find it sad that not women i have ever met was deeply into self development. The majority of girls i meet im only looking to fuck and then bounce, but if i am going to settle down with a bitch then it would be great if she was into self development. Another thing that i want to mention is that being into self devopment is part of the package of a quality woman. Just like women get impressed with guys like some of us on here (good money, good looks, well travelled, able to hold a good convo, etc), i will be highly impressed if i would come across these type of women once in a while, the percentage of really interesting women is just extremely low. Plus, thats why women are very emotional in many ways and have a limited view of how the world really works.
But fuck it, as long as i keep on fucking them, i shouldnt really care.