You're on the path to committing what I consider a newbie mistake. I don't think that a reminder as to how girls are from the RVF community will help you develop your skill set. That opinion needs to be formed on its own. This is a concept most newbies (including myself) struggle with.
What would help is simply practice. What I mean is approach as much as possible. Don't have a "preconceived" mindset. Rather just have an "evaluation" mindset as in "do I want to give this girl a chance." It's not easy to do and will develop as you get into the triple digits in cold approaches.
Truth is girls are not all the same. And the truth also is that you have a pedestalization problem. It can't be solved by taking action to change the mindset. You need to take action to approach and the mindset becomes a concubine to the practice. There is nothing out there worth having which doesn't require effort. You just need to put in work.
I suggest starting an approach thread or post in the general approach thread about your approaches. That will keep you accountable and get you the help you need from more experienced players.
What would help is simply practice. What I mean is approach as much as possible. Don't have a "preconceived" mindset. Rather just have an "evaluation" mindset as in "do I want to give this girl a chance." It's not easy to do and will develop as you get into the triple digits in cold approaches.
Truth is girls are not all the same. And the truth also is that you have a pedestalization problem. It can't be solved by taking action to change the mindset. You need to take action to approach and the mindset becomes a concubine to the practice. There is nothing out there worth having which doesn't require effort. You just need to put in work.
I suggest starting an approach thread or post in the general approach thread about your approaches. That will keep you accountable and get you the help you need from more experienced players.