I disagree with the guys saying you can't back up situations like this. You can. I've done it multiple times, even with one girl. It's emotional warfare out there, and you can always win the power back.
As we know, a woman's attention is fleeting and she only thinks of how she feels right at this very moment. It's as simple as pulling away from her without explaining why. Hanging with friends more. Not returning phone calls. Getting her hamster spinning and not getting drawn into a conversation about it.
Then just use a new attitude and set of standards for dealing with her once she's emotionally reaching towards you. The whole dynamic will change.
Wthen a woman is suddenly emotionally involved again, cringing and wondering what your brain is doing and hanging on your every word, she doesn't give a shit what stupid things you said or did two weeks ago. In fact, knowing the dependency you're capable of will frustrate her and confuse her. Dysfunction can be powerful and addicting.
Now is all that matters. Get her imagination going again.
It can seem like you're two different people in a whole new relationship after you change the cycle.
In fact, relationships go through dynamic shifts all the time. Your challenges are learning to direct those shifts rather than just getting swept along and maintaining your stronger more indifferent frame once she's back in step.
I'd say you've got your work cut out for you, but it's not rocket science.
And if you've already lost her, well, I guess you'll find out.
Play games and go back to acting right. Simple as that.
As we know, a woman's attention is fleeting and she only thinks of how she feels right at this very moment. It's as simple as pulling away from her without explaining why. Hanging with friends more. Not returning phone calls. Getting her hamster spinning and not getting drawn into a conversation about it.
Then just use a new attitude and set of standards for dealing with her once she's emotionally reaching towards you. The whole dynamic will change.
Wthen a woman is suddenly emotionally involved again, cringing and wondering what your brain is doing and hanging on your every word, she doesn't give a shit what stupid things you said or did two weeks ago. In fact, knowing the dependency you're capable of will frustrate her and confuse her. Dysfunction can be powerful and addicting.
Now is all that matters. Get her imagination going again.
It can seem like you're two different people in a whole new relationship after you change the cycle.
In fact, relationships go through dynamic shifts all the time. Your challenges are learning to direct those shifts rather than just getting swept along and maintaining your stronger more indifferent frame once she's back in step.
I'd say you've got your work cut out for you, but it's not rocket science.
And if you've already lost her, well, I guess you'll find out.
Play games and go back to acting right. Simple as that.
Beyond All Seas
"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling
"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling