Stop going for phone numbers.
If your goal is to actually have sex from daygame, just stop getting phone numbers. Period.
More than 90% will never convert. They just won't.
Take "phone number" completely out of your mind, and replace it with "insta date".
An insta date is the only reliable day game metric worth anything.
If you can't get her off path, to sit and talk with you for 5 minutes, you can't make her do anything.
Above all, get her to move physical location with you. It can be sitting down on a bench, the grass, the curb, whatever. Only when you achieve this crucial step, will you have a decent chance to get anywhere with her. A real connection.
If she's already seated, you need to get her to move with you. Anywhere, it can be a few chairs down. It still counts as compliance. From here, this dynamic triggers a cascading effect to the rest of your interaction. Only from here, can you lead her. To a cafe, to the park, your apartment...whatever you choose. But the first step is always getting her to follow your lead.
Getting instadates is hard! You have to ask for them. In the Anglosphere, you will often get objections 3-10 times before she gives in. The key is to persist by asking 3-10 different ways, all with a smile on your face. Once she commits to a "sit down", you actually have a chance.
Phone numbers from day game mean just about nothing.
If your goal is to actually have sex from daygame, just stop getting phone numbers. Period.
More than 90% will never convert. They just won't.
Take "phone number" completely out of your mind, and replace it with "insta date".
An insta date is the only reliable day game metric worth anything.
If you can't get her off path, to sit and talk with you for 5 minutes, you can't make her do anything.
Above all, get her to move physical location with you. It can be sitting down on a bench, the grass, the curb, whatever. Only when you achieve this crucial step, will you have a decent chance to get anywhere with her. A real connection.
If she's already seated, you need to get her to move with you. Anywhere, it can be a few chairs down. It still counts as compliance. From here, this dynamic triggers a cascading effect to the rest of your interaction. Only from here, can you lead her. To a cafe, to the park, your apartment...whatever you choose. But the first step is always getting her to follow your lead.
Getting instadates is hard! You have to ask for them. In the Anglosphere, you will often get objections 3-10 times before she gives in. The key is to persist by asking 3-10 different ways, all with a smile on your face. Once she commits to a "sit down", you actually have a chance.
Phone numbers from day game mean just about nothing.