Your behavior is geared toward your interests, comfort and pleasure, not hers. You do not validate yourself to her or anyone else in anyway. She is attracted to your amazing world like a month to a flame and the highest social status that she can hope to reach is being seen with you.
Its better to truly not give a shit then to pretend to not give a shit but I had to ‘fake it until I made it’ when it came to girls.
The best way to get to this state of Zen is to go out and approach a bunch of girls and say things to them that you know they’ll blow you out. Blow out on purpose. At least 5 times before you go out that night. Either on your way to meet your buddys or during the day when you know you’re going out solo that night. You’ll soon get to the point where women will try to blow you out but you’ll somehow stay in there. And once your there mentally your behavior will naturally follow.
Easy ways to get blown out:
“hey sugar mama buy me a drink in that bar over there”
If she’s s texting on her phone go up to her and just start giving her your phone number out load as if she’s supposed to be typing it in her phone. “Tickets to the gun show…..”
Whatever.
But other examples of this in later stages of seduction:
~Never compliment a girl on something that she hasn’t done. (But reward good behavior!)
~ If she’s an artist ask her about her inspirations instead complementing her art and/or tell her that her art is ‘interesting’ instead ‘cool’, reserving your judgement.
~Speak in slow manly voice
~Just kiss her
~ Are you paying attention to what kind of body language is ‘open’ versus ‘closed’ and when to use each?
Do you want more examples?
Its better to truly not give a shit then to pretend to not give a shit but I had to ‘fake it until I made it’ when it came to girls.
The best way to get to this state of Zen is to go out and approach a bunch of girls and say things to them that you know they’ll blow you out. Blow out on purpose. At least 5 times before you go out that night. Either on your way to meet your buddys or during the day when you know you’re going out solo that night. You’ll soon get to the point where women will try to blow you out but you’ll somehow stay in there. And once your there mentally your behavior will naturally follow.
Easy ways to get blown out:
“hey sugar mama buy me a drink in that bar over there”
If she’s s texting on her phone go up to her and just start giving her your phone number out load as if she’s supposed to be typing it in her phone. “Tickets to the gun show…..”
Whatever.
But other examples of this in later stages of seduction:
~Never compliment a girl on something that she hasn’t done. (But reward good behavior!)
~ If she’s an artist ask her about her inspirations instead complementing her art and/or tell her that her art is ‘interesting’ instead ‘cool’, reserving your judgement.
~Speak in slow manly voice
~Just kiss her
~ Are you paying attention to what kind of body language is ‘open’ versus ‘closed’ and when to use each?
Do you want more examples?