Quote: (11-19-2014 02:48 AM)aphelion Wrote:
Also, the most eligible girls in the dance scene are the married ones. Mark my words.
I may agree with you about married girls being more able to play because there may also be less competition after them, and they are generally more DTF (but on their schedule because they may have kids or even some other spousal constrictions - including discreetness in where they can meet).
on the other hand, my dancing in my 30s and 40s may skew my perspective to some extent because many women (at least the attractive ones) are going to already have had many and maybe even continuing relationships with guys when they are in their in their late 20s and thereafter (which tend to be the girls that have mostly been available to me).
Maybe you can explain more regarding your perspective on married women, yet I kind of agree with you about married women being a sizable DTF demographic in the salsa scene because about half of my banging salsa relations have been with married women (or women who were otherwise in some kind of relationship with a guy - usually outside the salsa scene). I do NOT usually ask too many questions, and usually they say enough for me to know that they are in some kind of committed relationship. On the other hand, half of my banging relations have been with single and otherwise "available" women (so married women are NOT the total story - and maybe NOT even a preferable target for some guys because some guys may NOT be ready and/or willing to go there - and some guys in their younger 20s may NOT feel that they need to go there because target girls in their younger 20s may NOT have been married yet).