To be honest, if you never want to be attached again, allow yourself to fall in love head over heel with a girl.
She will hurt you and despise you. You will be hurt and heartbroken but thats gonna be the last time you will be hurt in your life.
Its not even melodramatic or anything, but you get hurt enough, you will be freed from all the disillusionment of love and attachment. A lot of solid players become so after such instance.
Pain is always necessary to grow.
Anyway, if you are looking for some mechanics, one of my tutors gave me this tip: once the girl is no longer in front of you, she is no longer in your life. Stop thinking about her until you have to text/call her again. Basically she doesn't exist. Once she is there give her your undivided gaming focus.
This does two things: it stops you from being attached, and stop bad game due to overanalysis.
She will hurt you and despise you. You will be hurt and heartbroken but thats gonna be the last time you will be hurt in your life.
Its not even melodramatic or anything, but you get hurt enough, you will be freed from all the disillusionment of love and attachment. A lot of solid players become so after such instance.
Pain is always necessary to grow.
Anyway, if you are looking for some mechanics, one of my tutors gave me this tip: once the girl is no longer in front of you, she is no longer in your life. Stop thinking about her until you have to text/call her again. Basically she doesn't exist. Once she is there give her your undivided gaming focus.
This does two things: it stops you from being attached, and stop bad game due to overanalysis.
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