Quote: (10-06-2014 05:54 PM)daddyblues Wrote:
Quote: (10-06-2014 05:28 PM)teh_skeeze Wrote:
Here's the option you didn't think of: She chose Matthew to be the father. When you talked to her on the 21st, her body is already telling her she's pregnant, but she wouldn't be aware if it's her first pregnancy. I'm going to guess the early stages of pregnancy are what brought that bit about the OB-GYN out. Her mind is telling her she's pregnant, but the all knowing doctor said it's pretty much impossible. Anyway, at this point she's not looking to fuck around, she's looking for a caretaker of her future child. She tells you about Matthew, hoping you would get jealous or some other urge to snatch her away from him. You didn't take the bait. In fact, I would say that by not fucking her that night, you basically told her to go with Matthew. Your call a week later falls in the time frame of the missed period. She may not have done a test yet, but it's becoming obvious that she's going to be having a child. You are out of the question at this point, as beta provider Matt is more likely to stick around.
It's better to let sleeping dogs lie. You didn't want it then, so there's no reason to want it now. She didn't claim to be sick. She was sick from being pregnant. That's what she was going to tell you if you met up. To you it's out of the blue, but it makes perfect sense when you break down the timeline. I'm going to assume the kid is yours, but your chance to be the father [unknowingly] came on March 21st. Everything else falls in line with her telling you about "crazy personal stuff" (having a baby, unsure of who the father is) and "may or may not tell you someday" (the kid is yours). That google search isn't random at all. I search random stuff on google all the time. I have never looked up a past fuck in those cases*. What she said to you in May has been eating at your soul. You caught oneitis. The best thing you can do is forget about this and go get some more plates.
Congrats Alpha Fux
*It helps when you can't remember the names of all but 3 of the several dozen women you've fucked
fucking brilliant.
I just repped teh_skeeze for this and other great contributions to the forum. Unfortunately, I think he may be a victim of the New Jersey public school system, where often the smart kids get screwed and the not so smart kids somehow do well. I was in the same boat, but thankfully was able to fix everything after I got to college.