[Foolsgo1d]

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ver a span of a week, I reached out to 10 different guys, crafting short but thoughtful messages. Radio silence followed.

Determined, I scoped out more matches, reached out and waited for a bite. Nope -- it ended up being another round of rejections. So really, it was like being shot down by 20 consecutive times. Twenty men that were perfect for me based on my personality and interests were not interested in me even though I "looked" and "sounded" my best. Even at my best I was not desirable. To someone who struggles with self-esteem issues on an hourly basis, this was a kick in the gut.

Translation - "I was hitting on guys who are slim/athletic, tall with dark handsome traits and I dont know why they haven't responded".

And I also noticed how guys who she was not attracted too became "unsolicited messages". At least she didn't use the creepy word for them.