[Barron]

(09-22-2014 12:33 AM)The_e_man Wrote:  

Nomado - how would you have gone about this differently?
Girls from the bar are notorious for not putting forth any effort to set-up a hang out the next day.

Or perhaps I need to improve my game to get it to that level, but as it stands I will definitely have to be the one setting up the day 2's with these bar sluts.

I had a makeout session with a German girl I just started talking to in class last Wednesday. We talked after class and she said we should hangout some time.

At this point the line "we should hangout sometime" is the cue to ask her for her number, which she gave. To me phone numbers are completely meaningless and don't mean shit, only that you made a chick somewhat comfortable long enough to want to be nice to you.

I text her once on Thursday: "what time r u free tomorrow?" (assume the sale)
She says she has no firm plans but will be spending time in the library studying.
I text her around noon on Friday: "on campus"
She replies back 'Me too' and that she'll be free in 30 minutes.
I reply back "cool im in the computer lab"

Bam. she shows up and we hangout on some couches outside the cafeteria in a private area. After about 20 minutes of talking I tease her and she slaps me on the knee. As soon as she did it I grabbed her hand, pulled her in, and we were kissing for the next hour.

Does this happen all the time? No. Is she a foreign chick that doesn't know anybody here and is looking to hookup with an American? Probably.
All that aside, note how nothing about the interaction was planned; it just "came together". Women are most inclined to meet up when it's convenient and spontaneous. She told me when and where she was most likely going to be and I just happen to be in the neighborhood.

The first text was the riskiest part of the interaction because it could have just as likely been total radio silence after that (note I didn't introduce myself over text, she got a completely random message saying "what time r u free tomorrow"). The Friday text was also risky but she was more inclined to respond because it was completely free of any type of obligation and it was spontaneous and convenient for her to just wander over and meet up.