I'll echo everyone else..absolutely not.
My friend just took a girl home last night that he met out at a club in lower east side. I woke up this morning in a girl's bed I had met previously out a club and left her doorman'd apartment to walk home. Clint, myself, Spider, warder and a bunch of others I know in NYC both on and off the forum pull regularly from night game.
NYC also has meaning behind numbers. I've gotten plenty of numbers to bangs here from night game. It is not like LA where a number is as good as toilet paper you used to wipe your ass that morning.
Your dress is fine, but if you are saying you stall a minute after the opener then you need to work on your banter. The opener really doesn't matter, but if you want the easiest one it's to ask for a light. Get some low nicotine based cigs if you don't smoke. But this is not even necessary, see Clint's responses for openers.
It's a numbers game to a point but the beauty is in NYC the numbers are endless. Approach until one bites, make her laugh, move her around the bar, then just be aggressive. We are in America after all. I've had several girls tell me they couldn't believe how fast I asked them after meeting to come home with me (sometimes within 20-30 minutes) but guess what they came. Also, all girls I've brought home I've made out with at the bar/club before suggesting the move to my place.
Keep in mind, we are dealing with 6-7s here mostly. The elusive 8s are still hard to ONS, at least for me.
With ALL that said, is it worth it is a whole other conversation. But it's definitely not dead.
My friend just took a girl home last night that he met out at a club in lower east side. I woke up this morning in a girl's bed I had met previously out a club and left her doorman'd apartment to walk home. Clint, myself, Spider, warder and a bunch of others I know in NYC both on and off the forum pull regularly from night game.
NYC also has meaning behind numbers. I've gotten plenty of numbers to bangs here from night game. It is not like LA where a number is as good as toilet paper you used to wipe your ass that morning.
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I usually go out in jeans and a black v-neck, use the "you look like you are having the most fun of anybody here" opener, and try to get girls to move to another bar with me or to my place if I am feeling them. At the least, I go for a number. The opener draws girls in for a bit, but for as long as I can remember, I stall out a minute after the opener 90% of the time.
Your dress is fine, but if you are saying you stall a minute after the opener then you need to work on your banter. The opener really doesn't matter, but if you want the easiest one it's to ask for a light. Get some low nicotine based cigs if you don't smoke. But this is not even necessary, see Clint's responses for openers.
It's a numbers game to a point but the beauty is in NYC the numbers are endless. Approach until one bites, make her laugh, move her around the bar, then just be aggressive. We are in America after all. I've had several girls tell me they couldn't believe how fast I asked them after meeting to come home with me (sometimes within 20-30 minutes) but guess what they came. Also, all girls I've brought home I've made out with at the bar/club before suggesting the move to my place.
Keep in mind, we are dealing with 6-7s here mostly. The elusive 8s are still hard to ONS, at least for me.
With ALL that said, is it worth it is a whole other conversation. But it's definitely not dead.