I agree with everything said so far. I just got a number off Tinder of a 21 year old girl in a nearby city. I basically had to explain to her that I wanted the number so we could talk on the phone. I had to explain that I preferred a real conversation on the phone, since we are not nearby enough to meet in person right away. Finally she gave me the number after she understood my "weird" logic.
A few points to make:
1. Young folks today are scared of talking on the phone with anyone who is not a close friend. They are afraid of their call not being answered. They are afraid of answering a call that they don't know the purpose of.
2. If we are able to get a girl talking with us on the phone, it's a very intimate thing. 20 years ago it was normal to talk on the phone even if you didn't like someone. Now it's basically foreplay if you get a girl on the phone.
3. It's a great stepping stone to the meetup. It makes you stand out as a strong and different type of man. It builds enormous comfort. It shows enormous confidence.
4. you should not be afraid to talk with a girl on the phone. Otherwise you are just another beta AFC.
5. some girls will just never want to talk on the phone. It might be easier to meet them in person than to get them on the phone. It's just such a weird thing to these girls, or they are too busy to be bothered with it. They would rather just meet up in person. I got a lay once from an older chick who just wanted to text to arrange a meetup. Though younger chicks are more likely to be completely uncomfortable talking on the phone.
This is a great article about the Texting Generation and how they don't call anymore:
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/con...02848.html
A few points to make:
1. Young folks today are scared of talking on the phone with anyone who is not a close friend. They are afraid of their call not being answered. They are afraid of answering a call that they don't know the purpose of.
2. If we are able to get a girl talking with us on the phone, it's a very intimate thing. 20 years ago it was normal to talk on the phone even if you didn't like someone. Now it's basically foreplay if you get a girl on the phone.
3. It's a great stepping stone to the meetup. It makes you stand out as a strong and different type of man. It builds enormous comfort. It shows enormous confidence.
4. you should not be afraid to talk with a girl on the phone. Otherwise you are just another beta AFC.
5. some girls will just never want to talk on the phone. It might be easier to meet them in person than to get them on the phone. It's just such a weird thing to these girls, or they are too busy to be bothered with it. They would rather just meet up in person. I got a lay once from an older chick who just wanted to text to arrange a meetup. Though younger chicks are more likely to be completely uncomfortable talking on the phone.
This is a great article about the Texting Generation and how they don't call anymore:
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/con...02848.html