"If the separation was on you, there was a reason you wanted to leave her behind, don't forget that, don't allow good memories to whitewash the reality."
This has always been an interesting topic for me. Even in high school, I would ditch chicks...and then a few weeks later, I'd remember all of the "good times we had" and give her a call. Of course, I'd soon realize why I left in the first place.
I think the mind, in an attempt to self-preserve, keeps good memories in order to make us happy. The brain doesn't want to remember your ex as a cunt, because those negative feelings could spill over into other facets of life.
This has always been an interesting topic for me. Even in high school, I would ditch chicks...and then a few weeks later, I'd remember all of the "good times we had" and give her a call. Of course, I'd soon realize why I left in the first place.
I think the mind, in an attempt to self-preserve, keeps good memories in order to make us happy. The brain doesn't want to remember your ex as a cunt, because those negative feelings could spill over into other facets of life.