Quote: (08-14-2014 06:00 PM)Enjoythedecline Wrote:
I've already asked her how much sexual partners she had before getting exclusive and she told me she had less than 10 (she's 23). I'm wondering if I should call her out and question her more about her sexual past (like if she had a threesome and some other shits).
1) You probably don't want to know everything from her sexual past. If there are exes who overlap with your social circles or other baggage that might affect you, then you need to know. Otherwise, you shouldn't worry about it.
2) Rather than asking her directly, it's better to elicit such information more subtly, by dropping offhand comments and then seeing how she responds. E.g., mention a story about your friend's "slut" girlfriend and see how she reacts.
3) Just accept the fact that all women are whores. The way to maintain a healthy relationship is to instill dread, not to find a unicorn.