Quote: (07-23-2014 12:31 PM)OBJ Snakebite Wrote:
Quote: (07-23-2014 05:03 AM)Espresso Wrote:
I don't understand - why did that piss you off? Presumably you are deliberately saying something potentially provocative to incite a shit test. So if you use that type of game, you better be prepared for that inevitable shit test that's coming your way a lot of the time.
The responses I usually get are playful, not bitchy. You make a good point, duly noted. I'm still learning, and had no idea of how to respond to this.
Quote: (07-23-2014 02:43 AM)HawkWrites Wrote:
"My postage is no laughing matter".
Combine with a wink and you're golden. More often than not you'll get her laughing and will have calmed the mood so you're in back in control of the conversation again. The worst thing you can do is get butthurt since you're ceding control of the interaction back to her by default; getting pissed is implicitly telling her you can't handle being teased.
You have to A&A here in a matter that fits your personality and situation, though. That's just what I would say above.
For dumbass texts (from women) my go-to is either A&A or Amused Mastery depending on the nature of what they sent. Either way, the hamster is trying to break through the damn cage each time. Lots of what I use comes from Heartiste too so that's always a good resource to check for when you're stuck.
Hawk, what is that amused mastery you speak of?
http://therationalmale.com/2012/09/14/amused-mastery/