Quote: (07-18-2014 08:33 AM)Cobra Wrote:
Welcome to the forum Broda!
I'm ecstatic to see men seeking self-improvement no matter what cards they were dealt.
And then there are the dudes who have everything that god (or whomever) gave them; and they STILL DON'T APPROACH.
I started doing day game a bit back after starting out with nightgame. Some facts: Daygame is MUCH more difficult than nightgame and street approaches are the lowest odds in daygame. This is pretty much what I do nowadays because it is in fact HARD. I'm just saying REALIZE this and don't be so hard on yourself. I still put unnecessary pressure on myself without realizing how low the odds are.
Just keep going with the approaches. Before college starts, hit up malls. When you get there, being on campus actually should increase your odds; for example, you can easily run game on girls in class.
Check out forum member Hans Dix's College game blog. I don't see why you can't use most things he writes about.
IRT take note.
Thanks Cobra,
I think one of the biggest assets to my game will be the "idgaf mentality" not letting the chair rule your life. I know of and see many that have happened get the short straw that become quite sour and "white knightish" but the select few that I've come across are able to flip the script and seem to be quite successful.
There are some benefits that have become apparent though which is nice, even with the limited amount of experience I have noticed that I can get away with more, and girls don't get that "deer in the headlights look" when I approach.
Broda