So I've been hanging out with a girl for a few weeks, probably been on 10-15 outings with her, and feel like things are headed down the path of friend-zone. Yesterday, we were supposed to meet after work, but I had a feeling she would flake this time. Sure enough, she found an excuse not to hang out. (getting out of work late, won't make it home in time, etc.)
While I had absolutely nothing planned, I replied with "that's cool. I got invited to do some crazy shit out in Springfield, so I might go there instead"
Immediately, she replies with "what are you gonna do?"
So I give her vague details of another plan to go out with friends and other women.
Later that night, she sends a few texts asking if I went out, and how it went, etc.
Funny thing is, I did go out for a few, just to get out of the house, and get my mind off of seeing this girl, but I eventually replied that I had a blast.
Had I not read Bang, or this forum, I probably would've replied that I have no other plans, and seemed less valuable to this girl. So, thanks to everyone for providing the advice on this forum.
While I had absolutely nothing planned, I replied with "that's cool. I got invited to do some crazy shit out in Springfield, so I might go there instead"
Immediately, she replies with "what are you gonna do?"
So I give her vague details of another plan to go out with friends and other women.
Later that night, she sends a few texts asking if I went out, and how it went, etc.
Funny thing is, I did go out for a few, just to get out of the house, and get my mind off of seeing this girl, but I eventually replied that I had a blast.
Had I not read Bang, or this forum, I probably would've replied that I have no other plans, and seemed less valuable to this girl. So, thanks to everyone for providing the advice on this forum.