soup: you've touched on something really important. my game these days is sort of like therapist with these women. unfazed by their shit tests, their emotional ups and downs, the manifestations of their own insecurities - my role is to let all that shit come out and then defuse it all. sometimes by ignoring, sometimes by being direct, other times confrontational, other times by offering them an alternative.
i tend to call it out lightly and say, hey you dont need to do that you know.
women are aware of their crazy and many do want to push through it.
just be a rock, an oak tree, immovable, unfazed, demonstrate mastery of them and the female gender.
most women want to be uninhibited, open, trusting, fearless...and its from their inability to be those things that shit tests/acting out/acting weird come from. 99% of the time them acting weird is them being unable to process their own feelings without it being overridden by some protective mechanism inside.
one night i was making out with a girl on the street alone and when things were getting really good and sexy she just turned around and started walking away - right into oncoming traffic!
she didn't WANT to do that.
she just got scared of what it meant - hot kisses meant sex - sex might mean attachment - if its her getting attached it means she can get hurt - if its me getting attached it means yet another dude trying to wife her (she was really hot) -
as a man, being able to understand the real genesis of those seemingly insane behaviors does many things. 1) it makes you much more calm in the face of crazy. 2) it makes the women think you're some kind of savant. 3) it brings the women closer to a stable point where she can relax and let herself get intimate and open.
I just saw the movie Edge of Tomorrow (spoiler![[Image: wink.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/wink.gif)
) - and in the movie the character repeats the same day over and over and over again like 1000's of times it seems. and each day, he learns another small but invaluable piece of information that allows him to make further progress to his goal. so when people around him see him with total calm and mastery over what seems to be an insane situation - they think he is some kind of miracle man. but in reality he had just played this particular game 10,000 times when to them it looks like the first time.
this is the point you want to get to with women. go down the road enough times so that you've seen all the possible outcomes, combinations, permutations...so much so that you can predict woman's behavior easily as well as really cut right down to the source of all their behavior. they will look at you like some kind of god. or at the very least consistently exclaim "you are not like any man i've ever met before!" or "why are you still single?!" or "I (the woman) better not fuck this up"
women want men who are able to master them, coach them, guide them to a higher level of being. do that while creating a safe space for her to explore her sexuality and you'll have a dedicated lover for as long as you would like.
i tend to call it out lightly and say, hey you dont need to do that you know.
women are aware of their crazy and many do want to push through it.
just be a rock, an oak tree, immovable, unfazed, demonstrate mastery of them and the female gender.
most women want to be uninhibited, open, trusting, fearless...and its from their inability to be those things that shit tests/acting out/acting weird come from. 99% of the time them acting weird is them being unable to process their own feelings without it being overridden by some protective mechanism inside.
one night i was making out with a girl on the street alone and when things were getting really good and sexy she just turned around and started walking away - right into oncoming traffic!
she didn't WANT to do that.
she just got scared of what it meant - hot kisses meant sex - sex might mean attachment - if its her getting attached it means she can get hurt - if its me getting attached it means yet another dude trying to wife her (she was really hot) -
as a man, being able to understand the real genesis of those seemingly insane behaviors does many things. 1) it makes you much more calm in the face of crazy. 2) it makes the women think you're some kind of savant. 3) it brings the women closer to a stable point where she can relax and let herself get intimate and open.
I just saw the movie Edge of Tomorrow (spoiler
) - and in the movie the character repeats the same day over and over and over again like 1000's of times it seems. and each day, he learns another small but invaluable piece of information that allows him to make further progress to his goal. so when people around him see him with total calm and mastery over what seems to be an insane situation - they think he is some kind of miracle man. but in reality he had just played this particular game 10,000 times when to them it looks like the first time.this is the point you want to get to with women. go down the road enough times so that you've seen all the possible outcomes, combinations, permutations...so much so that you can predict woman's behavior easily as well as really cut right down to the source of all their behavior. they will look at you like some kind of god. or at the very least consistently exclaim "you are not like any man i've ever met before!" or "why are you still single?!" or "I (the woman) better not fuck this up"
women want men who are able to master them, coach them, guide them to a higher level of being. do that while creating a safe space for her to explore her sexuality and you'll have a dedicated lover for as long as you would like.