Being direct is about intention, regardless of the words that come out of your mouth.
You can ask a girl the time on the street and it could be indirect, and the same question could be more likely to be perceived as you hitting on her if you do it in a crowded club on a Saturday night.
Direct just means not trying to hide your intentions, and sometimes going out of your way to make them crystal clear.
I believe that attraction happens instantaneously and that people don't really get attracted over time. The game is how we cover that stuff or release the info to get what we want (on both girls and guys sides).
When you "trick" a girl in the game, you are tricking her into revealing that she likes you. That's why little white lies are just flirting.
I always just assume that the girls are into me, even through the toughest LMR, and that all their shit tests and resistance are just their anxiety.. it's got nothing to with me or how attracted to me she is. All that stuff is the girl's mind/hamster.
I see myself as a sort of midwife to help her attractions come to fruition out of depths of fear and insecurity. I know it's in there. Sometimes you just have to let the girl's mental storms just run their courses. Let it marinate. Other times you do have push a little to move things along.
Direct is just one of those strategies. There are times when it's more comforting for the girl when you go direct. If you play too hard to get, she might get too insecure. With hot girls, you want them to come off their high horse, but you don't want them to start getting dark about themselves.
You can ask a girl the time on the street and it could be indirect, and the same question could be more likely to be perceived as you hitting on her if you do it in a crowded club on a Saturday night.
Direct just means not trying to hide your intentions, and sometimes going out of your way to make them crystal clear.
I believe that attraction happens instantaneously and that people don't really get attracted over time. The game is how we cover that stuff or release the info to get what we want (on both girls and guys sides).
When you "trick" a girl in the game, you are tricking her into revealing that she likes you. That's why little white lies are just flirting.
I always just assume that the girls are into me, even through the toughest LMR, and that all their shit tests and resistance are just their anxiety.. it's got nothing to with me or how attracted to me she is. All that stuff is the girl's mind/hamster.
I see myself as a sort of midwife to help her attractions come to fruition out of depths of fear and insecurity. I know it's in there. Sometimes you just have to let the girl's mental storms just run their courses. Let it marinate. Other times you do have push a little to move things along.
Direct is just one of those strategies. There are times when it's more comforting for the girl when you go direct. If you play too hard to get, she might get too insecure. With hot girls, you want them to come off their high horse, but you don't want them to start getting dark about themselves.