[Samseau]

(07-11-2014 09:13 AM)frenchie Wrote:  

(07-11-2014 07:25 AM)Puddles Wrote:  

a life long friend of mine has recently got into a relationship with a girl. she's a nice girl, 7/10, cooks and can laugh at the odd rape joke or two. so fair to say that I don't have a problem with the girl personally. but what I do have a problem is how my friend has changed his life for her.

let me elaborate, he is very blue pill. but is a good lookin bloke who works out, is charismatic and earns a decent amount of money so he does well with women. before meeting her (on tinder I might add) he was in the process of enlisting in the military and has since put this, and the rest of his life on hold so that he can be with this girl. this isn't the first time he has done this either but I won't get into that.

other friends of mine who also frequent this forum have tried to introduce him to the red pill mindset but he more or less rejects the whole idea.

I know that i can't ever be that friend who is a yes man, and I need to show him the errors of his ways, but am stumped for ideas. I'm sure this has happened to, well most of you. how did you handle this?

What the hell is wrong with his decisions? Maybe he wants to settle down and have a family regardless of the consequences. Half of marriages fail, maybe he'll be one in the blessed half that don't fail.

What is your definition of red pill? There's far more to being red pill than slaying lizards, wearing custom up suits, and hitting the gym. It's about self improvement and honestly looking at all sides of a situation instead of coming to some knee jerk reaction.

If the girl wasn't a cock goblin and from what you say is genuinely nice, ask him if settling down is what he wants instead of being free. If he says yes, than pat him on the back, smile, and wish him well.

You really believe he's gonna meet marriage material off of tinder?